[Gordon Booth]

Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington

a woman refusing intimacy (with her spouse)isn't a big deal.

There we go again- a lack of sensitivity.Try asking the man whether it's a big deal!

Any man who finds that a refusal of intimacy damages his confidence, has issues that will not be dealt with by getting his end away.

Surprised at you, Margaret. I thought you at least would understand how sensitive and easily hurt most men can be.

( Gordon, I do hope your post was 'tongue in cheek')

I don't really like smilies but perhaps I should use more.