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katex · 29-05-2006, 21:52

[QUOTE=WillowTheWhisp]Not sure what you mean there katex by "original process" but it is very important to me to retain in my surname the name of my first husband and father of my children, and importnt for hem to keep the surname of their father. Had I been divorced from him and then married Busman I would simply have taken Busman's name and the children may well have changed their name to his as well but when their father died he was still very much part of the family and very much loved by all.[/QUOT

Believe me, no criticism intended here at all, just thought better to stick to the norm. and change your name, because this is how society understands it and the children will be questioned more by your double-barrel than anything.

Just one question, if you had another child of your own, then what name would that child adopt ?

29-05-2006, 21:52	#13
katex Resting in Peace Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Clayton-le-Moors Posts: 10,551 Blog Entries: 3 Liked: 16 times Rep Power: 11258	Re: What’s In A Name? [QUOTE=WillowTheWhisp]Not sure what you mean there katex by "original process" but it is very important to me to retain in my surname the name of my first husband and father of my children, and importnt for hem to keep the surname of their father. Had I been divorced from him and then married Busman I would simply have taken Busman's name and the children may well have changed their name to his as well but when their father died he was still very much part of the family and very much loved by all.[/QUOT Believe me, no criticism intended here at all, just thought better to stick to the norm. and change your name, because this is how society understands it and the children will be questioned more by your double-barrel than anything. Just one question, if you had another child of your own, then what name would that child adopt ?