[Madhatter]

You can't end an item someone has bid on unless they are the only bidder. Do yourself a favour and just leave it on. If they are the highest bidder they will get it anyway, they will just have to wait. I can't understand this obsession with speed in ebay, why does everybody want it deliveredf or collected now this second. People have a life, they have work, some only sned and list at weekends. people have even left me negative for something that I paid for but decided I didn't want so told them to keep it/reauction it/bin it. Some real screw loose people on ebay.

Also beware, if you do end it and put it on bin there's no obligation for them to press that bin button, and you haven't get a second bidder to offer it to then.

I've done deals on stuff that won't sell Gayle, a bit of bartering is good, they don't have to lower the price. Sometimes the postage or cost to collect an item makes it not worth the price.
Then you get some things that are worth going to fetch especially if your most of the way there.
I fetched some stuff from margate in the week because I was already at london.