[Neil]

Originally Posted by flashy

Jen i know this may sound daft but.... i dont buy flowers for my mums grave, i buy them for her and put them in my house, everytime i look at them they remind me of her and that makes me smile, she died almost 18 years ago and i've been doing it ever since

I think that's a really lovely idea Shaz. I always did think it was bit pointless putting flowers on a grave.