[Margaret Pilkington]

if someone has had the courtesy to take in a parcel/package for you, then it is the least you can do to go and pick it up.
Being retired, we often accept parcels for our neighbours, but it rattles the bejasus out of me when they have had a card to say where the parcel has been left, but are too idle to stir their stumps and come for it.
I have started to refuse to take in parcels for those folk who can't come and get their parcel.