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Thanks all for your advice, before my Grandma went into hospital this time she had carers coming in for

1hr in the morning to wake her and help her with a shower and to get dressed and take medication.
1hr at tea time to help with cooking her meal (we were always there at dinner to help her).
1hr at bedtime to help her get into bed and take medication.

But my Grandma has already told us that she doesnt want to go back home as she is frightened, also I think she wants people round her now to make her feel safe. Me & my Mum try and do as much as we can but we cant be there 24/7. My Mum is still getting over having a heart attack so I also dont want her to get ill again.

Its a hard decission to make what to do for the best