Why are men never in the wrong?

Diesel · 27-01-2008, 23:58

Even though i am posting under my fiances name(Diesel) i would like other women out there to let me know if their partner even though they know they have done wrong will never admit it!

Why is it when couples have an argument that the man insists that its the womans fault?

I am fairly new to this relationship lark and was hoping for some advice from the more experienced ladies out there.

It is very frustrating!

Is it always like this?

thanks in advance,Laura.

shillelagh · 28-01-2008, 00:10

They never change Laura - you just get used to it!!!

Thing is though getting a man to admit they are in the wrong is very hard to do - not all of them are man enough to admit they are wrong.

To all of you lot yes spug does admit hes in the wrong when he is ........ if he didnt he'd know what i'd do - he'd have a very high pitched voice for at least a month if not life!!!

Diesel · 28-01-2008, 00:14

Fair enough!
The thing is that he is only like this when he has had too much to drink!
he is currently asleep on the floor of the spare bedroom and i know he will be really sorry in the morning but am i supposed to put up with this forever and a day?

Diesel · 28-01-2008, 00:16

I have had the same to drink as he has but i dont get like he does,and to be honest it is quite worrying.

shillelagh · 28-01-2008, 00:32

Never argue with a drunken fella - no 1 they are never in the wrong, no 2 they can never remember the morning after what theyve said so when you chuck the cup of tea he asked for over him he says whats that for? No 3 fellas can argue for england when drunk so no use trying to get any sense out of them anyway, No 4 just proves that fellas cant hold their booze!!!!

I'd give up and go to bed - you'll need the sleep to be able to deal with him in the morning!!!

slinky · 28-01-2008, 01:01

OH HECK an argumentative drunken man!!

This is my advice....and believe me its a good one! ( married women of 11 years )

Go to the spare room door, open very very quietly. Creep to the window, open window wide....and leave the drunken monkey on the floor for the night.

If your feeling very very pee'd off.....pour a little bit of water on his jeans where his willy wonker is ..... that'll give him something to be sorry for

MargaretR · 28-01-2008, 06:56

An argumentative drunk is really bad news -reconsider......

lancsdave · 28-01-2008, 09:51

How can men never be wrong ? You can never win with women no mattter how long you live, which effectively means from a male point of view you can never be right

Diesel · 28-01-2008, 12:08

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Originally Posted by margaret@rothwell5.f

An argumentative drunk is really bad news -reconsider......

I wouldnt say he is an argumentative drunk,he rarely gets drunk but when he does its a nightmare.

He was very apologetic this morning and actually admitted he had done wrong so hopefully(maybe i am being naive) we can have a good chat tonight and sort things out.

AccyLass · 28-01-2008, 12:14

Sorry no advice to give, but I do hope ya sort it out
One thing I have learnt is, if you ignore things, they do NOT go away

Good Luck

MargaretR · 28-01-2008, 12:14

How many nightmares a year can you tolerate? .... why any?

Diesel · 28-01-2008, 12:20

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Originally Posted by margaret@rothwell5.f

How many nightmares a year can you tolerate? .... why any?

Because i love him and he loves me.
This is a rarity and 99%of the time he is the most caring,loving gentle man and things are great.
He isnt abusive and has never laid a finger on me he just gets silly very occasionally and i have told him he needs to sort it or we wont last.