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Heth you are right to get things moving ASAP get the forms filled out because you will have to bid for any property you think is suitable on "B-with us", good luck:)

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My mum and dad were in Anchor housing in Morecambe and the standard was good.
Anchor housing have places on Sparth Rd Clayton-le-Moors and near James St in Ossy.

http://www.anchor.org.uk/Pages/home.aspx

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Before I started at university I worked for Willowbrook Home Care for 2 years. I worked at Kirk House in Church and also covered at Hyndbrook House.

They are both lovely places, carers are on site 24/7 and all residents can call them at anytime for anything, they are with you within minutes. The buildings are both very secure.

I can't remember who owns Hyndbrook but Accent Homes has Kirk House. Both properties have communal lounges and there are usually plenty of people in there if you are feeling a bit lonely.

Kirk House has bingo twice a week, dominoes once a week, trips out and every other Sunday everyone come together for tea made by the carers.

I can't recommend it highly enough and I know all the carers there are wonderful.

Good Luck with your search.

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Think these care homes are as good as their staff, JCB, its like firms that provide home care, which enables more people to stay at home. When I was in hospital 14 months ago I was told that they wouldn't discharge me unless I agreed to home care, so I did, under protest (I've always been very fiercely independent) but I'm now glad I did, I let lucky, I got Careforce (now Mears) George who is my main carer (he's also a member of Accyweb) has actually improved my standard of life, he's more of a friend than a carer, to me if this enables me to stay more independent its great

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Thank You all for your info, it really is a big help for me and my Mum :)

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Hyndbrook House is Evesbrook (well it was 7 years ago) x

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we had a friend in Kirk House till approx 7 yrs ago, we used to take him on holiday, he spoke very well of the place.:)

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It is part of the Harvest Group now Emzy:)

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I'm afraid i got my streets mixed up, the place i was thinking of is called Springfield Mews & its actually on Simpson Street in Ossy!

Best Regards - Taggy

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That's the Anchor Housing I menioned earlier

http://www.housingcare.org/housing-c...e-england.aspx

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We have had a few clients to Kirk house when they have been able to leave us. I work at Hollinbank House H.F.E Ozzy. it's a 14 bed home. The care we give is Excellent and tailored to the individuals needs.
They can bring in their own Nick-knacks to make it home from home. We do long or short stay.
My advice is lancashire care homes to see the rating. Then go and have a look round, talk to the proprietor and check out the staff.
The home after all is only as good as the staff.
Pm Mick or My self if you have any questions. Or you can ring and ask for Mr Pullinger or Mrs Fort.
Good luck what ever you decide on.

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Thank You very much Anne I will let you know if I get stuck on anything.
The plan is to go and visit all the places I have printed off for my Mum to read through, as soon as we have a estimate of when my Grandma is getting out as we would like to take her with us as she is the one that has to live there!
Thanks again Anne will keep you posted.
Heth

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Thanks heth, your welcome.

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I had to put my mother and father into nursing and carehomes as the cost of coming in never suited. Cold chips on the counter top not eaten and vast costs too.
Abbeyfield is a sheltered housing association and yes, to be safe or feel safe is a basic human requirement. If I can research or help anyone find one let me known by PM. My mother has dementia and I dislike the stigma used. She is as bright as a button as it is her memory that is affected, not her mentality.

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Well to be honest I don’t know where to start to give you a update peeps!! I know its been a while but I just haven’t had the time, well here I go………

We were told by the hospital at Blackburn Royal 2wks ago that they were planning to send my Grandma home soon once her SATS had improved and stabilized. Now we were a little surprised to say the least.
Basically the op that my Grandma had just had was a larger one than the one last year, she has also had a pacemaker fitted due to her heart keep stopping and she had been bed bound for 5wks. So for them to say they were even thinking about sending her straight home worried us, last year she went to Rehab to get her back on her feet before she went home but due to NHS cuts this could not happen this time.

So time to start the ball rolling with Nursing home’s.

A week last Friday my Mum and I decided to start looking.
Where to start though?
My Mum looked through the paperwork and suggestions that you guys had gratefully sent me and we set a plan out, she would come to my house for 9am and we would start with the closest which meant Addison Court.
Now I know Cashy had informed me that he had a friend that had been there and it wasn’t too clever in the dementia part for his own reasons but didn’t know about the residential side.

Me Mum arrived at my house and we walked down to Addison Court as it is only at the bottom of my street. We were warmly welcomed by one of the managers to say that they didn’t know we were going (we thought it were best to catch them off guard!).
She sat us down in the office and made us a brew, now the first impression that both me and Mum got when we walked towards the office is how clean everything looked and smelt which to me is a good sign.

My Mum went through everything that had happened to my Grandma over the past year and that the hospital had told us that they were planning to send my Grandma home soon but we didn’t feel like she was 100% to go home. We were talked through some things that the home did i.e activities, days out, meals, and care, and then asked if we wanted to look around.

We had just stepped outside the office to start looking when my Mums phone rang, the hospital.

“Hiya, the doctor has decided to discharge her after tea today to her home”

Yep you can imagine my Mum’s response, but there were no budging them. They had asked my Grandma if she felt ready to leave and she had replied yes (my Grandma’s memory isn’t good, she cant remember half the things she has gone through and she doesn’t class herself as ill or old even though she is!) so the nurse told my Mum that she couldn’t go against my Grandma’s wishes!
So once my Mum had calmed down we had a look around Addison Court including the nursing top floor for residents that need special care (yes I agree Cashy) and we were impressed with the residential side.
It were clean and plenty of staff around to answer different questions we had.
We had a look through the menu they had for each day and through the different activities they had done recently.

We were then back into the office and both me and Mum knew what each other were thinking without words………..it would be a good idea for her to come here for a month and see how she likes it and see how they treat her. So with the help of the owner we arranged for Grandma to go to Addison Court straight from hospital that night.

Yes I know what some of you are thinking, it were the first place that we had seen and that we had rushed into this but what else could we do? We both had the “good gut feeling” and sometimes you just have to trust that.

Grandma has been there now just over a week and seems to have settled in well, we took her TV from her house and other bits and bobs to make it seem more homely and so far so good. She does seem to spend quite a bit of time in her room watching her TV but that is just my Grandma when we aren’t there with her, she is quite a shy person when on her own. She does potter about and seems to like the staff.
She is being showered every morning by a member of staff just while she gets herself steady again and when we are not with her she is on hourly checks 24/7 just incase she has another “funny do” or epileptic fit so what more can we ask for?

She hasn’t took part in any activities as yet as she is either out with us or still a bit shy yet but all in all I think this was a good “gut feeling”.

Thankyou all for your help it has been great, lets see what the next three weeks bring.