Ossy barber jailed! - Page 3

Neil · 08-03-2009, 21:49

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Originally Posted by panther

in their 40's.....YEP

, didnt do much good though, she prefers women

And old rough looking ones at that

steeljack · 08-03-2009, 22:39

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Originally Posted by panther

My daughter is 15 and nearly 6ft when she is dressed up she would possibly pass for 18 but some girls dont look 18 especially at 14...maybe being drunk doesnt help realising this, but men of 40 something shouldnt even be looking at girls at that age or 16 or 18..its just wrong

Guess Humberts book Lolita doesn't merit a place in your bookcase then

magily · 09-03-2009, 00:39

I think when he is telling the young girl to duck down when she was in his car as well as telling her that if she tells anyone his kids will go into care clearly this is a very manipulative man. As far as I am concerned he is a child molester and obviously knew what he was doing was wrong.
And as far as the discussion regarding young girls looking older than what they are sex with a minor is sex with a minor. That's why it is a good idea to get to know your sexual partners first instead of meeting in a club, having sex and then asking the important question like how old are you, and that goes both ways.

Neil · 09-03-2009, 08:28

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Originally Posted by magily

I think when he is telling the young girl to duck down when she was in his car

If 21 is classed as a young girl I was guilty of that

Then again the Police would probably have had some other offences to charge me with

flashy · 09-03-2009, 08:39

just read all of the posts and i do think its terrible BUT some(and i'm not talking about the girl in the link) 14,15 year old girls DO go out of their way to get older men and enjoy the older men lavishing them with money and gifts....when i was at school several girls my age and a couple of years older where getting pregnant to older men (well much older than school age anyway)

some girls dress to impress the older man and make them think they are older, i know this is a different case that we are all talking about but some girls do know what they are doing and arent all innocent, 50% of the girls in my school year had lost their virginity by the time they where 15 and seemed to enjoy bragging about it

do the under age girls ever get prosecuted for having sex whilst themselves being under age? NO

take my karma or whatever you want to, i'm just telling it how it is, i'm not afraid to let people know my opinion on things

Neil · 09-03-2009, 08:51

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Originally Posted by flashy

do the under age girls ever get prosecuted for having sex whilst themselves being under age? NO

Do you ever hear of 16 or 17 year old lads being prosecuted for getting 15 year old girls pregnant. I know the age gap is smaller but it is still illegal.

As the recent child father story in the papers shows this happens the other way around as well. I bet she is not prosecuted if the DNA tests show the young boy is the dad

flashy · 09-03-2009, 09:18

Neil are we on the same wavelength here mate? i am actually sticking up for blokes

magily · 09-03-2009, 09:52

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Originally Posted by flashy

just read all of the posts and i do think its terrible BUT some(and i'm not talking about the girl in the link) 14,15 year old girls DO go out of their way to get older men and enjoy the older men lavishing them with money and gifts....when i was at school several girls my age and a couple of years older where getting pregnant to older men (well much older than school age anyway)

some girls dress to impress the older man and make them think they are older, i know this is a different case that we are all talking about but some girls do know what they are doing and arent all innocent, 50% of the girls in my school year had lost their virginity by the time they where 15 and seemed to enjoy bragging about it

do the under age girls ever get prosecuted for having sex whilst themselves being under age? NO

take my karma or whatever you want to, i'm just telling it how it is, i'm not afraid to let people know my opinion on things

Thanks for the karma.
I totally agree that there are young girls out there who enjoy the idea of dating an older man and if the girl is of legal age then not a lot anyone can say. I may point out though that if I had a daughter of 17yrs I would certainly not encourage any relationship with a much older man.
Call me old fashioned but parents need to start parenting again, if your'e child is hanging out with someone much older then you as a parent need to start asking questions.
As for the Ossy barber this was clearly child molestation, he knew what he was doing was wrong.

flashy · 09-03-2009, 10:43

hold on a minute, when i was 14/15 me and another accywebber used to 'hang out' with 'older guys' our parents didnt know a thing about it, yes all we where doing was hanging out, nothing more sinister, if the parents dont know about it then how can they do anything about it? i know for certain that my mum would have gone balistic if she found out (and she did eventually)

this has nothing whatsoever to do with 'bad parenting' kids can be secretive, i know i was at that age

and before anyone says anything, i was 16 before i lost my virginity

magily · 09-03-2009, 11:26

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Originally Posted by flashy

hold on a minute, when i was 14/15 me and another accywebber used to 'hang out' with 'older guys' our parents didnt know a thing about it, yes all we where doing was hanging out, nothing more sinister, if the parents dont know about it then how can they do anything about it? i know for certain that my mum would have gone balistic if she found out (and she did eventually)

this has nothing whatsoever to do with 'bad parenting' kids can be secretive, i know i was at that age

and before anyone says anything, i was 16 before i lost my virginity

Believe me I know about kids being secretive, it's knowing what you got upto is what makes it scary as a parent.
Trust me I have 4 kids 15, (my 15 yr old has disabilities so is supervised at all times)13, 10 and 5, I am just at the beginning of the teens with my 13yr old and already is becoming more distant. I will not allow him to go to any friends houses after school if I don't know them and if there are no parents at home. Last week he got an invite to a party with both boys and girls attending, I phoned the parents to make sure it was supervised. And when he gets mad, tells me it's not fair etc... too bad.
What I do know is that teens need to know is that they have choices and that they have to be accountable for the choices they make.

firefighter753 · 09-03-2009, 11:39

Hang on a minute what does it matter if 14 or 15 year olds can look older at the end of the day this 43 year old man has had sexual intercourse with a CHILD because at 14 that is what she is, and has been convicted for it, this makes him a peodophile simple as. I can't believe panther is being slated for calling him a pervert because thats what he is!!

emamum · 09-03-2009, 11:44

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Originally Posted by firefighter753

Hang on a minute what does it matter if 14 or 15 year olds can look older at the end of the day this 43 year old man has had sexual intercourse with a CHILD because at 14 that is what she is, and has been convicted for it, this makes him a peodophile simple as. I can't believe panther is being slated for calling him a pervert because thats what he is!!

yeah, he knew she was 14 so yeah he is a pervert, what people are saying is that you cant always tell how old these girls are, i have a 15 and a 16 year old sister and they look older than they are....... there isnt any magical change in the way they look the day they turn 16 and its legal!

flashy · 09-03-2009, 11:45

where are people slating panther?

they are merely pointing out other facts

Neil · 09-03-2009, 11:50

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Originally Posted by firefighter753

Hang on a minute what does it matter if 14 or 15 year olds can look older at the end of the day this 43 year old man has had sexual intercourse with a CHILD because at 14 that is what she is, and has been convicted for it, this makes him a peodophile simple as. I can't believe panther is being slated for calling him a pervert because thats what he is!!

I agree with you totally he is a pervert because he knew how old she was. I can have some sympathy for people when they honestly do think the boy/girl is old enough.

Would we all feel the same if the bloke at been 16 and the girl 14?

flashy · 09-03-2009, 11:54

or for that matter Neil, the opposite way around, the girl 16 and the lad 14