Allegations about Jimmy Saville: covered up? - Page 42

Burningman · 02-11-2013, 15:30

Time is the greatest healer.

Unless you were molested by Jimmy Savile 40 years ago, then the solution appears to be money

jaysay · 03-11-2013, 10:00

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Originally Posted by Burningman

Time is the greatest healer.

Unless you were molested by Jimmy Savile 40 years ago, then the solution appears to be money

And that's what a lot of people have been saying for years too

cmonstanley · 12-01-2014, 19:30

Female MP abused boy in care | UK | News | Daily Express wonder whats this all about

Gordon Booth · 12-01-2014, 19:40

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Originally Posted by cmonstanley

Female MP abused boy in care | UK | News | Daily Express wonder whats this all about

You posted it , why don't you try reading it?

Boeing Guy · 12-01-2014, 20:26

If the Daily Express have printed it, it must be true.

You have a link to Private Eye in your signature, if you are a regular reader of it, you should know what they think of Dirty Des' s quality rag

accyman · 15-01-2014, 18:50

very strange for a news paper not to name someone accused of been a pedophile they havnt shown such restraint with many many other people

one could be forgiven for thinking even they think the case so flimbsy that even they dare not put a name in print

Barrie Yates · 17-01-2014, 09:08

So a girl goes to Roache's house and is raped and traumatised. She then returns - from the reports, a number of times and she is raped again.
Perhaps I am missing something here but why return to a place where she was abused and traumatised to such an extent that she can clearly remember the details of something that happened over 50 years ago?????????????????????

MargaretR · 17-01-2014, 09:30

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Originally Posted by Barrie Yates

So a girl goes to Roache's house and is raped and traumatised. She then returns - from the reports, a number of times and she is raped again.
Perhaps I am missing something here but why return to a place where she was abused and traumatised to such an extent that she can clearly remember the details of something that happened over 50 years ago?????????????????????

Rape is not always violent aggression.
A victim can be under the control of the rapist in order to ensure their passive endurance of the act - ie. the victim didn't want it but felt helpless to prevent it.

If you have heard the term 'grooming', that it how it is done.

MargaretR · 17-01-2014, 10:26

PS - Whilst we are on the subject of 'passive endurance' -
Some men have a misguided notion that there is such a thing as 'conjugal rights'.
If a wife doesn't respond to foreplay it means she doesn't want to do it. To carry on regardless is emotionally damaging to her. Some men treat their wives like animated blow up dolls. If you behave like that by 'carrying on regardless' you end up killing any love she ever felt for you.

Gordon Booth · 17-01-2014, 10:49

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Originally Posted by MargaretR

If a wife doesn't respond to foreplay it means she doesn't want to do it. To carry on regardless is emotionally damaging to her.

Just goes to show how selfish and thoughtless some women can be.

Isn't saying 'No' to your loving, caring, thoughtful man emotionally damaging to him?

Imagine his loss of confidence in his career, with his friends, doing housework!

That selfish, thoughtless moment on her part could ruin his whole life.

Margaret Pilkington · 17-01-2014, 11:41

It is a well documented fact that the libido of men and women are at odds both in timing and frequency......so a woman refusing intimacy (with her spouse)isn't a big deal.

Any man who finds that a refusal of intimacy damages his confidence, has issues that will not be dealt with by getting his end away.

( Gordon, I do hope your post was 'tongue in cheek')

Gordon Booth · 17-01-2014, 12:21

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Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington

a woman refusing intimacy (with her spouse)isn't a big deal.

There we go again- a lack of sensitivity.Try asking the man whether it's a big deal!

Any man who finds that a refusal of intimacy damages his confidence, has issues that will not be dealt with by getting his end away.

Surprised at you, Margaret. I thought you at least would understand how sensitive and easily hurt most men can be.

( Gordon, I do hope your post was 'tongue in cheek')

I don't really like smilies but perhaps I should use more.

Margaret Pilkington · 17-01-2014, 12:46

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Originally Posted by Gordon Booth

I don't really like smilies but perhaps I should use more.

What makes you think I haven't asked, Gordon?
I am a very straightforward person.....but I still hold the view that any man who is offended by his spouse spurning a bit of leg-over, has a very delicate ego...and needs to (in todays parlance) 'Man up'.

In the past if I ever didn't feel like a bit of 'amore'......I would say so and often say why(your breath stinks of garlic/beer/cigarettes or all three).

Now if he took the initiative to 'woo' me then things might change...but come on Gordon - pull the other one about men being such sensitive souls. I have lived too long to believe that myth.

Accyexplorer · 22-04-2014, 14:24

"People who say they were sexually abused by Jimmy Savile are being advised how they can claim compensation through adverts in newspapers.
So far, about 140 people have come forward claiming they are victims of the former entertainer."

BBC News - Jimmy Savile: Adverts advise victims on compensation

I wonder how many will be jumping onboard the compensation wagon!

Neil · 24-04-2014, 12:24

I don't think anyone should get compensation from the estate because nothing has been proven in court.