Leaving the forum

accymel · 19-06-2007, 10:26

I cant discuss my feelings about the forum which im getting increasingly down about because im ONLY allowed to discuss this with a moderator yet we can have general discussions about everything else & even have a good old bashing threads but as for forum it has to be silent affair.

After having my post again deleted because i dare to mention moderator & question actions of other abusive people who are getting away with alsorts at the moment !!! I have met some wonderful people indeed on this forum & hope you will keep in touch. My only contribution i wish to make are on behalf of all the quizzers - I will still run the quiz there & chat on that - so quiz wont change unless stated on the shout box. Mick im sorry i will reply to pm when calmed down.

I've had enough of all this so im taking time out from Accyweb completely for now, this was once a great forum but unfortunately the idiots have spoilt the fun!

All the best everyone

Keep in touch.

panther · 19-06-2007, 10:37

oh accymel. youre not serious?
just ignore the ones who spoil it!
i dont know whats been going on

but surely it cant be that bad to leave... please dont leave

it should be the idiots leaving!!

Lilly · 19-06-2007, 10:43

I agree Accymel.It would be a great shame if you left.I haven't been posting that long but long enough to know that you are a very popular and valued member on here.Is this because of that business on the other thread last night?Don't be driven away.If someone's trying to wind you up just ignore them and don't reply to their posts.So many people would miss you if you went.Don't go.

MargaretR · 19-06-2007, 10:48

We know you have had a lot of stress lately due to house repairs.
Please reconsider when you have got that sorted.
We all get bad times so that we can appreciate the good times, and now you have Dave to help, things can only get better -

lancsdave · 19-06-2007, 10:51

Get yourself a nazi uniform so you can take part in the discussions on the same level as some others

Gayle · 19-06-2007, 11:11

I'll tell you what I say to my kids (not calling you a kid btw) - if someone's bugging or bullying you, stay away from them.

I don't know how personal some of the threads or posts have been towards you, though I did get the impression that you knew these people. However, I deliberately haven't posted on any of those threads - I simply stay away from them.

They shouldn't be allowed to spoil your enjoyment of the forum. The majority of people on here are really nice (yes, Less I am including you in that) but if you leave the bullies have won.

davo69 · 19-06-2007, 11:27

i was told if you get hit hit back harder dont let bullies win we are a majority of good people please dont let a minority beat you

lancsdave · 19-06-2007, 11:30

Its actually nothing to do with bullies. it's about fair play.

WillowTheWhisp · 19-06-2007, 12:07

I'm sorry to hear you are leaving Mel. I do hope you'll reconsider and come back when you feel able to. You will be missed. You make a lot of valuable contributions to this forum.

Gayle · 19-06-2007, 12:07

Quote:

Originally Posted by lancsdave

Its actually nothing to do with bullies. it's about fair play.

Not sure I understand what you mean there.

eggstoocool · 19-06-2007, 12:08

Well, I dont post much, just now and again, but I do read the posts as often as i can, and generally I really enjoy them (with a few exceptions of course). I do understand how difficult it can get when just a few cause trouble and seem to get away with it.

I play the quiz every day accymel, and while Im really not great at them, i really enjoy and appreciate them, so thanks so much for all your effort there.

I really hope you reconsider when things settle down, because i for one will miss your contributions to the forum.

All forums tend to go through these hassles from time to time, and it can be really difficult when the playing field seems to become unfair.

MITZY · 19-06-2007, 14:29

accymel if you leave these idiots have in a sense won, don't go take a break and think things over.................

garinda · 19-06-2007, 14:31

We've all felt like this at sometime.

I really hope it's temporary, and that you'll be back soon.

You've made an invaluable contribution to this forum, and I've learnt a great deal from you, by reading your posts.

With love, and the hope you'll soon feel you want to come back soon. G xxx

lettie · 19-06-2007, 14:46

Awww Mel, you will be missed. I have tended to ignore the trouble making threads, tbh, I can't be arsed with them, I have enough hassles of my own. Please look in from time to time, we'll miss our quizmistress.

Wynonie Harris · 19-06-2007, 14:53

Mel, I can honestly say, you're one of my favourite people on this forum - and you're just as nice in real life. You'll really be missed.

If there's anybody leaving the forum, it certainly shouldn't be you!