proposed?

panther · 20-02-2008, 11:55

It said on the radio , that if your man hasnt proposed to you within 3 years of your relationship, then it means its going nowhere!

what ya reckon?,, any truth in that or just a load of balls

my fella proposed to me 8 months after we met

and we are still together after 13/14 years

...........

AccyLass · 20-02-2008, 12:26

Nah what a load of rubbish, I love my fella to bits, but don't wanna get married
He knows this so would obviously not ask

cashman · 20-02-2008, 12:27

means nowt in my opinion, never took me that long,but everyones differant.

blazey · 20-02-2008, 14:34

My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years now, but I keep telling him not to bother. I cant make my mind up about whether I secretly want him to though. I think there may be some more suitable people I haven't yet met yet, after all I'm only young, and I dont ever want to have to get divorced.

entwisi · 20-02-2008, 15:04

I proposed to Julie after 10 months, we moved in together 3 months later and married 2 years after that

pipinfort · 20-02-2008, 15:20

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Originally Posted by entwisi

I proposed to Julie after 10 months, we moved in together 3 months later and married 2 years after that

a bit similar to us, were do people get this stuff from?

Trentster · 20-02-2008, 15:23

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Originally Posted by blazey

My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years now, but I keep telling him not to bother. I cant make my mind up about whether I secretly want him to though. I think there may be some more suitable people I haven't yet met yet, after all I'm only young, and I dont ever want to have to get divorced.

Jeez woman, why is he with you ,has he got the receipt from the daft(any other words would have meant it would have gone to 18's) shop he found you in!

lindsay ormerod · 20-02-2008, 18:56

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Originally Posted by blazey

My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years now, but I keep telling him not to bother. I cant make my mind up about whether I secretly want him to though. I think there may be some more suitable people I haven't yet met yet, after all I'm only young, and I dont ever want to have to get divorced.

Possibly not quite ready for the long haul then ?

pipinfort · 20-02-2008, 18:57

hope he does`nt read this thread then.......

panther · 20-02-2008, 19:04

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Originally Posted by AccyLass27

Nah what a load of rubbish, I love my fella to bits, but don't wanna get married
He knows this so would obviously not ask

how long ya been together ?, if ya dont mind me asking

mrskitty · 20-02-2008, 19:15

Well me n Corker have been together 9 months-nobody has said its too early for us to get wed(which im v shocked about TBH).....all our families are happy for us n said they knew it would happen....if he had left it till 3 years then i might have started to worry,considering how much we talked about it after being together only a few months.....i know-sounds bad but hey,i dont feel like im taking as risk.

emzy · 20-02-2008, 19:32

I dont think it matters these day wether you marry or not, i got engaged quite soon and the marriage didnt last. I cant say being what ive been through id want to get married again so hope i never get asked but i know people who have no intention of getting married and are still together and happy many years on

panther · 20-02-2008, 19:34

like i said ...i got engaged after 8 months, ......im still not married and its still lasted

SamF · 20-02-2008, 20:25

My mates parents never married and he is both of theirs so that's at least 18 years still going strong.

The 3 years is quite stupid, I've been with my girlfriend for just under a year and a half, if this held any water I would have to propose at the age of 19... think I'll risk leaving it

AccyLass · 20-02-2008, 22:59

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Originally Posted by panther

how long ya been together ?, if ya dont mind me asking

3 yrs in August