secret satisfaction..... - Page 3

MargaretR · 13-09-2008, 21:26

I believe in fidelity in a marriage.
What I got up to inbetween marriages, I sometimes blush about

Lilly · 13-09-2008, 21:29

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Originally Posted by MargaretR

I believe in fidelity in a marriage.
What I got up to inbetween marriages, I sometimes blush about

Oooooh, Margaret! Tell us more!

Margaret Pilkington · 13-09-2008, 21:30

I can see that I have led a very sheltered life!

shillelagh · 13-09-2008, 22:10

A couple of months ago it was my nieces 21st birthday and we were going through all the old photos of my niece.

Now at her christening which i was a godmother my boyfriend at that time came with me. He lived in Clitheroe and i used to go over every weekend and meet up with him after work on saturday and then go to the footie - he played for sabden. Anyway he was on these photos - i didnt recognise him. It was my brother-in-law who said who it was!!! But i found out what he is doing now through work. He used to work for his sister ..... now he works for the Lancashire Football Association in fact i only know this because i had to write to him from work ....... but talk about looking old!!!! He looks a damn sight older than what he did when he was younger.

MargaretR · 13-09-2008, 22:13

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Originally Posted by shillelagh

He looks a damn sight older than what he did when he was younger.

That's logical

shillelagh · 13-09-2008, 22:29

Ok i'll rephrase it margaret when i was going out with him - he looked older than his 26 years - now he looks a damn sight older than his 47 years!!!!

jaysay · 14-09-2008, 09:40

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Originally Posted by MargaretR

whilst woring on the door at the Cav
You really must get a new keyboard

I tend to cringe when I see an old flame and think "how on earth did I ever fancy that"

see what you mean Margaret, this flaming lap top don't do as I've tod it, it keeps missing letters, it should have siad working not woring

jaysay · 14-09-2008, 09:42

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Originally Posted by Neil

Were you selling or buying?

No just dishing it out

panther · 16-09-2008, 09:17

I havent seen my ex for years!!, i can just imagine him being a fat and bold , LOL, couldnt care less really about what their girlfriends look like,.... i pity them really...lol

jaysay · 16-09-2008, 16:06

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Originally Posted by panther

I havent seen my ex for years!!, i can just imagine him being a fat bold bas***D, LOL, couldnt care less really about what their girlfriends look like,.... i pity them really...lol

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned

emamum · 16-09-2008, 16:11

There was one guy that i still thought about even tho i havent seen him for 8 years, and thought 'what if?' in my mind he was gorgeous and perfect and fantastic...... i saw a pic of him the other day and thought 'naaaaah!!' lol, its always better in your head. (his new wife has the mankiest teeth ever, which made me laugh)

WillowTheWhisp · 16-09-2008, 18:28

What does it matter who your ex is currently with? Especially if you are with someone new yourself. If the past is over, it's over. To keep dwelling on it and feeling any sort of malice towards the ex seems to indicate that you haven't really got over the break up and moved on. Otherwise why would it matter?

As for what people look like, well I consider personality and character to be far more important than looks. I remember one very handsome young man I went out with but he was about as interesting as a wet Wednesday in Wigan. All he cared about was himself and being gorgeous.

If you set too much store on what someone looks like what would happen if they were disfigured in an accident? Would you cease to love them?

So these ex-boyfriends who now have girlfriends whom you consider to be unattractive are perhaps not so shallow and looking at the real person, the person within the physical shell and love them for what matters more than mere appearance.

If I saw an ex-boyfriend with a new girl I would be happy for him that he had found someone else. I know plenty of people who are friends with the wives of guys they used to go out with and one ex of mine became a close friend of my late husband and friend of all the family.

mrskitty · 16-09-2008, 18:44

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Originally Posted by WillowTheWhisp

To keep dwelling on it and feeling any sort of malice towards the ex seems to indicate that you haven't really got over the break up and moved on.

That is correct-as the last time we 'broke up' was him telling me he didn't want anything to do with Jack when i was 8 weeks pregnant with him......that might be why i haven't got over it

emamum · 16-09-2008, 19:31

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Originally Posted by misskitty

That is correct-as the last time we 'broke up' was him telling me he didn't want anything to do with Jack when i was 8 weeks pregnant with him......that might be why i haven't got over it

Apparently its ok for a man to leave a pregnant woman.... its not his fault.

mrskitty · 16-09-2008, 19:36

Fault?i wouldn't say Jack was anybodys 'fault'......his dad is missing out on the greatest thing that happened to him (only he doesn't realise this), now THAT is his fault.....

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