Looking for my children - Page 2

WillowTheWhisp · 18-09-2007, 17:42

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Originally Posted by flashytart

hmmm something's dodgy here, he's hardly given any details, ive asked him twice how old she is

Yes, I asked that too - it would help to know if we are talking about an adult or a child for a start.

Stanleymad · 18-09-2007, 18:13

Well seems the case for me as for some of u saying it smells dodgy thats what prompted me with sketchy info, as for minors i think i've heard of one of the brothers, & are definately minors from child professional point of view again prompted my advice, so please be careful before submitting any help to the poster & that if u know them then ask 'the families or persons' permission whether its fine or not to pass on details for their sake 1st to ensure no harm is done to be on the safe side, probably best for anyone that is being looked for really as well. As i say there are other routes the poster can take legally rather than posting on a public forum especially if it is about someone under the age of 18 certainly, which the poster doesn't seem to mention age & nor offer of should the person themselves wish to contact, seems a bit suspect

but rather be safe than sorry & conscious clear.

grego · 18-09-2007, 19:50

I agree with Stanleymad, no details should be given unless you know the people involved want to be contacted.

WillowTheWhisp · 18-09-2007, 21:43

Well if the children are minors I suppose that is up to the mother.

BIGBRIAN · 18-09-2007, 22:47

Hi,the reason i do not reply quick enough to your questions is that i do not
have a computer,i am using a friends,i came across this Accy website by
chance when i was browsing at places i used to work at when i lived their,i was a doorman.
There is nothing suss or dodgy going on.
Kersha is now 17,her brothers are 15 & 12(approx).As Kersha is now 17 i feel that she is at an age where she can be contacted & i hope i can find her,as some of you say,yes it should be her decision if she would like to contact me,i hope she does...

WillowTheWhisp · 19-09-2007, 05:04

Thanks for the reply Brian.

If anyone knows Kersha or the family maybe they can get in touch with her and direct her to read this thread.

Stanleymad · 19-09-2007, 08:26

Thanks Brian, sorry if i sounded like a police sergent, but as u can appreciate being a father & the possible abuse of internet forums, i had to put the advice out there, for everyones sake, as i knew person would be U18, which in legal terms the age u become an adult in the eyes of the law - hence u couldnt go thro some other routes. Also posting on public forum also being aware of her brothers which are still young yet, so i had reason to advice. Hopefully anyone knowing your daughter can pass on these details & ask her permission before submitting anything or she may contact u herself, hopefully resolve will come soon

WillowTheWhisp · 19-09-2007, 09:12

OK I'm just playing Devil's advocate here but how did you know she would be under 18 Stanleymad? Flashy had mentioned she knew a Kersha who was late teens early 20s which is why I said it could be an adult with kids of her own if she was the one.

Stanleymad · 19-09-2007, 09:21

As i said willow i formally worked at the said school as a TA so i knew of one of the brothers & as he mentioned the brothers, which is why i had a feeling she wasn't far off. So my posts were based on same ethics on this situation, sorry if i butted in.

WillowTheWhisp · 19-09-2007, 10:47

No, that makes sense.

notts · 19-09-2007, 10:55

alright big brian remember me dave perry when we worked at spin form

natasha29 · 20-09-2007, 20:47

i no the girl, shes my sisters friend, they got college together, ive told my sister to show her this forum post an maybe she,ll get in touch,
good luck to you both

BIGBRIAN · 22-09-2007, 01:41

[quote=notts;472090]alright big brian remember me dave perry when we worked at spin form[/quote

WOW that place is a blast from the past,yeah i did work their many many years ago.Am suprised you remember me,hows things going with you.I vaguely remember your name as i am better at faces than names.

BIGBRIAN · 22-09-2007, 01:58

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Originally Posted by natasha29

i no the girl, shes my sisters friend, they got college together, ive told my sister to show her this forum post an maybe she,ll get in touch,
good luck to you both

Thank you,thank you,thank you,i cant believe this,somebody knows her,this is fantastic

Lolly · 22-09-2007, 04:15

I'm glad someone knows who she is, but I think at any age then they should be able to decide if they should get in touch, I have no idea who my biological father is, but if he got in touch on here I would like to have time to think about if I should get in touch or not. But saying that it is my choice and I would need time to think about it. Not saying everyone is like that! Its up to the individual.