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Old 28-10-2011, 20:58   #61
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Steve, if you had a child and the child turned out to be gay.. who's 'fault' would it be?
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I personally think that as long as the child is safe, looked after and brought up to be a decent person what does it matter if they have same sex parents.

As said in previous posts kids will pick on other kids for anything. Its the way of life.

All these familys that you read about that have a Mum & Dad that abuse and mis-treat thier children is the worry not whether same sex parents should have the right to bring up a child.
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If I was a orphan, rather than a miserable chilhood spent in care, I'd much rather be part of a loving family.
Regardless of the gender of the parents.
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Old 28-10-2011, 21:02   #63
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Steve, if you had a child and the child turned out to be gay.. who's 'fault' would it be?
Its living enviroment of course
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Old 28-10-2011, 21:02   #64
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The "as a lord" may have been unneccessary. He was a adult when I was a boy.
From all the details you posted about him, besides him being as 'gay as a lord', lots of people will sadly now know exactly who you mean.

Did you ask, before discussing his life, on a public forum?
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Old 28-10-2011, 21:15   #65
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The "as a lord" may have been unneccessary. He was a adult when I was a boy.
If you'd have said as 'gay as a boy wearing a Roman style frock', we'd have known what you meant.

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Old 28-10-2011, 21:15   #66
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Exactly.

If I was a orphan, rather than a miserable chilhood spent in care, I'd much rather be part of a loving family.
Regardless of the gender of the parents.

Me too G, I wouldnt mind at all as long as I was being looked after and was happy
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Old 28-10-2011, 21:16   #67
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From all the details you posted about him, besides him being as 'gay as a lord', lots of people will sadly now know exactly who you mean.
Maybe so, but I havn't said any derogatory about the guy, I've just said what anyone who actually knows him probably already know.

Flashy, if a child of mine turned out to be gay, no, I couldn't "blame" the environment. But as I said many posts ago, environment might have an effect in some cases.

If I put one of these in my post will it make it seem more light-hearted? I have a feeling it's getting too serious!
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If you'd have said as 'gay as a boy wearing a Roman style frock', we'd have known what you meant.
haha, hope that's not breaking forum rules!
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Maybe so, but I havn't said any derogatory about the guy, I've just said what anyone who actually knows him probably already know.

Flashy, if a child of mine turned out to be gay, no, I couldn't "blame" the environment. But as I said many posts ago, environment might have an effect in some cases.

If I put one of these in my post will it make it seem more light-hearted? I have a feeling it's getting too serious!
You've discussed the sexuality of someone, who from all the details you gave, is easily identifiable.

That is bang out of order.

Unless you asked, if he, and his family mind their private business being discussed on a public forum?
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haha, hope that's not breaking forum rules!
What?

Googling nob in a frock, and posting the result?
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What?

Googling nob in a frock, and posting the result?
You're the nob?

Like no way!!!

What are the chances of that?
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You're the nob?

Like no way!!!

What are the chances of that?
Privacy's very important to some people.

I bet the person you discussed in so much detail thinks that too.
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You've discussed the sexuality of someone, who from all the details you gave, is easily identifiable.

That is bang out of order.

Unless you asked, if he, and his family mind their private business being discussed on a public forum?
It's amazing that one (what I thought was an) innocent post can lead to this. I suggest we call a truce!
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If I put one of these in my post will it make it seem more light-hearted? I have a feeling it's getting too serious!
No, everyone's laughing.

It's ages since we've had a simple-minded soul wander into the village.

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haha, hope that's not breaking forum rules!
Don't give up your day job, by the way.

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