arndale death.....

magpie · 13-06-2013, 15:42

Woman dies in fall from Accrington shopping centre car park (From Lancashire Telegraph)

they need to do something about blocking the roof top or something... how sad again:

flashy · 13-06-2013, 15:51

heard about this earlier, as my mate said, if they didnt do it from the Arndale they would do it from the viaduct

R.I.P to the lady and condolences to her family

cashman · 13-06-2013, 15:58

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Originally Posted by flashy

heard about this earlier, as my mate said, if they didnt do it from the Arndale they would do it from the viaduct

R.I.P to the lady and condolences to her family

Agree wi shaz, a mate from work did it from viaduct in mid 70s. No real way to stop tragedies like this.

Less · 13-06-2013, 16:13

How tragic is such an incident, whatever the reason that drove her to it, the family will be feeling a great loss, such a shame whenever it happens.

magpie · 13-06-2013, 16:20

there of course other buildings like you say... however the arndale seems to be a magnet of late

Less · 13-06-2013, 16:24

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Originally Posted by magpie

there of course other buildings like you say... however the arndale seems to be a magnet of late

Yes, plenty of buildings, maybe the car park is the easiest? Just too many victims, how awful that folk are driven to it.

accyman · 13-06-2013, 16:27

Its bad enough for an adult to see something like this i just hope no kids witnessed it

jaysay · 13-06-2013, 17:16

Anybody who does this must be at a very low ebb, another very sad case

Shurm · 13-06-2013, 19:42

So sad that anyone feels this is the only answer.

egg&chips · 19-06-2013, 18:25

I do think that some places are too accessible as potential jump spots. Yes the viaduct is always available but the more obstacles you put in the path of a person with suicidal tendencies surely the more time you give them to reconsider nd perhaps change their mind?

westendlass · 19-06-2013, 19:54

What an absolute tragedy for the whole family. My dads sister commited suicide during the 1950's at the age of 23. My dad never really spoke about it when we were growing up, I think it was too painful but it affected all of us. Noone knows what someone else is thinking and if someone is determined , they will always find a way. So sorry for the people left behind.

jaysay · 20-06-2013, 08:02

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Originally Posted by westendlass

What an absolute tragedy for the whole family. My dads sister committed suicide during the 1950's at the age of 23. My dad never really spoke about it when we were growing up, I think it was too painful but it affected all of us. No One knows what someone else is thinking and if someone is determined , they will always find a way. So sorry for the people left behind.

I used to mate out with a lad when I lived over Hassy, sure Jen would have known him, not long after I move back to Ossy I heard he'd hung himself from the bridge over the motorway near his home, was a really decent bloke, never did find out what went wrong, was a tragedy

shillelagh · 20-06-2013, 13:53

yeah I knew him jaysay ... it happened a week after he carried me round all the pubs in accrington because I was on crutches and couldn't keep up .. none of us could believe it .. he'd been in the pub that night laughing and carrying on .. and the next thing we knew ...

Less · 20-06-2013, 14:24

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Originally Posted by shillelagh

yeah I knew him jaysay ... it happened a week after he carried me round all the pubs in accrington because I was on crutches and couldn't keep up .. none of us could believe it .. he'd been in the pub that night laughing and carrying on .. and the next thing we knew ...

Some folk call these people selfish, that to me is them being selfish, just because they would rather call the poor sod for being driven, (inside), to do it, than trying to understand the need they actually felt they had.
Of course it's better if you can recognise a loved ones pain/hurt, but sometimes nobody knows and people go to extreme lengths to prove that they are ill.
I hope anyone's god will forgive them the torment.

accyman · 20-06-2013, 14:59

some people also call them cowards as well as selfish an din some cases its acurate to do so.

some people choose suicide because they dont want to face terminal illness and pain where as others choose suicide because their girlfriend left them or vice versa

many reasons as to why folk top themselves ,not all of them deserve sympathy