bye all - Page 5

Yolanda25 · 01-01-2008, 22:33

Yeah but how do you know that, u dont ,do you,neither do i but i dont start being nasty to her, just leave it as it is, best thing to do

harwood red · 01-01-2008, 22:39

I'M GONNA SCREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For goodness sake Blazey, pipe down gal!! She has somewhere to stop for tonight at least...she can't do anything right now and rightly so has been offered the use of A computer and comes to accyweb where she may feel some source of comfort when she is in a helpless situation!!!

Now tell me I don't know what I am talking about..

1, she can't contact any housing assoc...they are all closed till tomorrow, plus they do not prioritise housing the council do
2, the council will only place you in hostel accom. if you have satisfied all other avenues..i.e family and friends
3, She needs to be assessed tomorrow by HBC's housing needs section for priority

Think I will leave it at that but if I can say anything Blazey don't be so damn judgemental unless you have walked in somebody's shoes

emamum · 01-01-2008, 22:39

ok, yesterday i needed to move out.. i didnt want to stay with someone that obviously didnt want me there... the man i love told me he doesnt love me anymore and he wanted me to leave...would you want to stay... ??

emamum · 01-01-2008, 22:40

oh... did you all know that te councils emergency helpline is closed for the hols?

emamum · 01-01-2008, 22:45

sorry, i forgot... you do whatever your boyfriend tells you to do dont you?

Blazey, i feel like sh*t, i have had to explain to my lad that we have no home, i have the stress of not knowing whats gunna happen to us, trying to sort someting.... you are not helping.... I am supposed to protect my son, provide for him and keep him safe! not doing a very good job am i?

so.... i am single, homeless and a crap mum... anyone else want to have a go?

harwood red · 01-01-2008, 22:46

read my post on 87 blazey!!!!!!!! and think she has explained herself, though she shouldn't have to

em, accylass is right, don't feel you have to justify yourself, you're going through it no-one else is, take care x

WillowTheWhisp · 01-01-2008, 22:48

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Originally Posted by blazey

Well perhaps I may be old fashioned, but I just think its a bit odd to take up someones offer of a place to stay in a time of need and sit in their house on the internet all evening. I certainly wouldn't do it, and I don't know anyone else who would either. To me its a bit like taking over the TV remote in someone elses house.

And I think it would be a bit odd to reject someone's offer of a opportunity to use a PC whilst they themselves are on their laptop.

What would you do? Sit and watch them on their laptop?

emamum · 01-01-2008, 22:50

i need my friends..... and it just happens that they are on the internet...

WillowTheWhisp · 01-01-2008, 22:51

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Originally Posted by emamum23

I am supposed to protect my son, provide for him and keep him safe! not doing a very good job am i?

so.... i am single, homeless and a crap mum... anyone else want to have a go?

You are doing an excellent job Em. You cannot control what other people around you do to you. Blazey has no right to criticise as she is not in your shoes.

Yesterday when you just said you were looking for somewhere to rent in the Sandy Lane area I had no idea how urgent the situation was. I do hope you can find somewhere.

emamum · 01-01-2008, 22:52

ffs.... i rang ever number i could find they were full.... you want me to trail my lad around all the hostels?

you dont want to hear my story stop bloody clicking on it then!

harwood red · 01-01-2008, 22:54

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Originally Posted by blazey

you can walk into a shelter and they will help you find accomodation. I know this from experience, so if you were struggling, you would have found somewhere. I dont need to keep hearing your story.

Once again, so wrong!! They can offer advice and assistance but not necessarily shelter...

she has found somewhere tonight and you have criticised her for that anyway...you really are a nasty piece of work blazey.. and I have not said much to you up till now but even my patience has worn very thin

WillowTheWhisp · 01-01-2008, 22:57

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Originally Posted by blazey

I think I'd be offering to help out with the housework personally. Thats the general thing that happens when you stay at someones house, whatever the situation.

Maybe she has done that and maybe the friend has said no you sit yourself down and relax after the pig of a day you've had. Maybe her friend has a bit of compassion. Something you seem to be a bit short on at the mo.

harwood red · 01-01-2008, 22:59

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Originally Posted by BLACKBURN RAVER

bit like everybody else on here then eh !!!!!

hmmm care to elaborate??? but maybe starting your own thread in anything goes??

Bonnyboy · 01-01-2008, 23:01

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Originally Posted by derekgas

The caravan park in haslingden is a well known drugs haven, the owner is a member of the well known sharky family, I would not recommend this for even a short term.

The friend was picked up, fed, watered, bathed and given a warm bed. The £108 bill was picked up by myself. The Sharkey family I dont know, but I do know that the gobby owner was made to pipe down....kinda rethink their intent.

It just highlights the type of places that already vulnerable people are sent to...very sad.

BLACKBURN RAVER · 01-01-2008, 23:02

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Originally Posted by harwood red

hmmm care to elaborate??? but maybe starting your own thread in anything goes??

not really no, my statement says it all....