Cant wait for school to start

[mumtotwo]

Sorry again,I replied to quickly
Thank you those that replied x

[panther]

Originally Posted by mumtotwo

I am now pulling my hair
My two will not get on,if one goes into the others bedroom then a war starts. You can hear them arguing from miles away.
My almost 8yr old daughter has an attitude that stinks like the tip.I might aswell be something on the bottom of her shoe. I bought her new trainers,had her hair-cut(how she wanted it)bought her some new clothes. I then take my son for his hair cut and i dont love her i spend all my money on Tyler.She never gets anything. I ignore her bad behaviour and then i get"you hate me,why dont you listen to me" Because you are screaming at me and i dont want to be screamed at
If she is like this now what will she be like as a teenager
I know i am rambling but i just needed to get it off my chest.
Thanks for listening
Bernie

so its not just my kids?.........

[polly]

There is a theory that siblings fight and argue because they are competing for the parents attention. From personal experience I would say this behaviour often stops when they get to their late teens and become more independent.So all you have to do is survive for another 10 years!!

It helps if you can find a situation where they have to work together and share knowledge.Camping is always good for this even if it is only in the back garden. Get a tent put them in it and even if they do argue they are doing it out of your way.