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Caz · 03-04-2009, 22:20

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Originally Posted by Royboy39

What are you saying? that the scumbags on the prowl today should be allowed to take up with these young girls unchecked?

Did I say that?! NO! Stop putting words into my mouth will you! Maybe you don't have much contact with the dregs of humanity these days, unlike some of us, who know it goes on. But that is what some sections of society are like these days. Reality check Roy!

emamum · 03-04-2009, 22:20

can we please remember that not all teenage parents are bad parents or bad people!

Royboy39 · 03-04-2009, 22:23

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Originally Posted by emamum

can we please remember that not all teenage parents are bad parents or bad people!

I think we all know that Em.

cashman · 03-04-2009, 22:23

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Originally Posted by emamum

can we please remember that not all teenage parents are bad parents or bad people!

has anyone forgot that?

Royboy39 · 03-04-2009, 22:25

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Originally Posted by Caz

Did I say that?! NO! Stop putting words into my mouth will you! Maybe you don't have much contact with the dregs of humanity these days, unlike some of us, who know it goes on. But that is what some sections of society are like these days. Reality check Roy!

If you are still in a position to make things happen then go for it.

Caz · 03-04-2009, 22:31

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Originally Posted by Royboy39

If you are still in a position to make things happen then go for it.

Why would I be in a position to "make things happen"????

All I'm doing is offering views like everyone else.
You often seem to make comments like that when I put posts on here. Why?

What's your solution then? Considering we are not now in the 1950s and it is a whole different ball game? How do you consider we could make things happen?

Caz · 03-04-2009, 22:36

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Originally Posted by emamum

can we please remember that not all teenage parents are bad parents or bad people!

We all know that Emma, Was a mum myself at 18. But we also all know which section of society is being referred to.

Royboy39 · 03-04-2009, 22:43

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Originally Posted by Caz

Did I say that?! NO! Stop putting words into my mouth will you! Maybe you don't have much contact with the dregs of humanity these days, unlike some of us, who know it goes on. But that is what some sections of society are like these days. Reality check Roy!

You seem to respond with some authority as to what goes on, that is why I asked the question....enlighten me?

Caz · 03-04-2009, 22:51

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You seem to respond with some authority as to what goes on, that is why I asked the question....enlighten me?

Really? maybe it's because i try to put my views in an erudite way, sorry if that is a problem.

Which comment are you referring to in this instance? Still on about my comment on lads and their sisters??

cashman · 03-04-2009, 23:14

erudite's a problem fer me caz, what the hell does it mean?

lindsay ormerod · 03-04-2009, 23:14

I did write a long and quite erudite post, agreeing with Neil's earlier insight, but it seems to have gone missing in the ether.
Anyhow, as I see loads of feckless "young" ie 14-17 year old mums on a daily basis at work, most of whom are unable to understand the terms of usage on a free milk voucher, I have come to this conclusion;free housing is easy to come by if you are young and have a baby.
On the same note free contraception is also easy to come by, as is the emergency morning after pill , these seem to be less important than the first option.
It is more than a little worrying when you get a 14 year old in school uniform asking to see the pharmacist for the morning after pill, even more so when she brings 8 of her mates in, giggling, to "support" her.
Laughable, pitiable and to be honest not right.

garinda · 03-04-2009, 23:40

It's a generation of disinterested parents, and years of poor education, that is letting these young people down.

The rudimentary mechanics of reproduction, and for that matter contraception, can be taught in minutes. It's the teaching of self respect and morality that's sadly not being taught in schools.

We have become over the last thirty or so years a nation that demands whatever we desire straight away, and to hell with the consequences. The must have trainers, the latest mobile, or sex. Pubescents have always been interested in sex, and always will be. What must be made clear is that you can have a healthy interest in steam trains, for example, without the need to drive one yourself.

The pathetic recent case of a sexually active fifteen year old girl, and her thirteen year old partner, who it turned out wasn't the teen father, isn't an isolated incident. Thousands of young teens are rutting away in back alleys across the lad, with little thought to the fact that unprotected sex may lead to pregnancy, or disease. Someone else will provide the finance for their offspring, if they should happen to conceive.

I don't know if the situation can be saved. Young people are just mirroring the want it all now society we all live in.

The only hope I think is if education focuses much more on the responsibility that comes from physical relationships, and that such unions are so much more special when conducted in a long term loving relationship.

Neil · 03-04-2009, 23:43

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Originally Posted by Caz

Devil's advocate again Neil.

Just asking questions without giving my opinion thats all.

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The Brockhall comment really doesn't deserve an answer!

Maybe not but that is what used to happen only a few years ago.

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Originally Posted by Caz

We are obviously talking about unwanted pregnancies, not parents of a young age in a "stable relationship or Marriage" which may or may not last.

What makes you sure that all babies born to young teens are unwanted?
I think part of the problem is that some of these girls want babies so go out and get pregnant intentionally.

cashman · 03-04-2009, 23:47

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Originally Posted by Neil

Just asking questions without giving my opinion thats all.

What makes you sure that all babies born to young teens are unwanted?
I think part of the problem is that some of these girls want babies so go out and get pregnant intentionally.

yes but how many of those want em fer the babies sake?

Caz · 03-04-2009, 23:49

Yes Neil, i think most of us know that in days gone by women were locked away for getting pregnant. the fact that it happened is what didn't deserve an answer, not you personally.

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What makes you sure that all babies born to young teens are unwanted?
I think part of the problem is that some of these girls want babies so go out and get pregnant intentionally.

Because they think that is what they want, for whatever reason, and however misguided.