Dorothy, like you....I have no complaints about the way Ma was treated after her fall(which saw her off).
The staff, both in A&E and on the ward treated her like she was the queen mother.
My next door neighbour though had a very patchy experience of treatment before he died.
There was some of it that was excellent and some of it was just very poor.
So I do know that it depends on where you go and what else is going on.
My daughter also has had some very questionable care.
Skuta I am appalled at your story and would encourage you to take up an opportunity to make complaints against the parts of the organisation that failed you.
This can be s bit of a trial, but if you do not make your experiences known, then others will be subjected to similar treatment
I would suggest that you enlist the help of the Patient Advice and Liason service which will look at things on your behalf.
https://www.elht.nhs.uk/application/..._Read_PALS.pdf
There is a link to get you started.
I am a retired nurse.....and I know the difficulties that patients encounter, but I also know that the service you received is unacceptable.....and nothing that the hospital does, in retrospect, will change that.
But those who delivered such a poor service need to know their failings because they will not improve unless this service is scrutinised and critical appraised.
I. Like Dorothy, hope that you are being cared for in a much better way now.