How do you leave? - Page 3

Mancie · 09-06-2009, 06:35

well it was not me miss....it's that bloke with the big ears!

Margaret Pilkington · 09-06-2009, 06:48

well, Blazey...if you aren't as rowdy and immature as you make out...........why do you give that impression?
It isn't a trait that fosters admiration.
And yes it is perfectly reasonable to change your mind about something....after all females are notorious for doing just that.......but what makes you think that we all want to know about it.
You asked for advice......good advice was given and yet (pardon the pun) you still laboured the advice.

blazey · 09-06-2009, 06:58

I 'laboured' the advice because I have pretty much already done it. Why write a letter when they have email addresses? I've contact them by email and had no response yet but it have been 2 working days so I'll give them until the end of the week and then I'll try another method.

And I gave up talking about anything serious that I'm interested in because it tends to be a bit out of the depths of most people on this forum, so I save those conversations for the people who know what they're talking about and vent out my boredom with you lot. I mean, you're all easy enough to convince that I'm being serious most of the time, and the ones who know me well seem to appreciate it quite a bit because they know what I'm doing. Maybe you all need to stop being so serious?

flashy · 09-06-2009, 07:06

like i said in the karma i just took from you....dont underestimate people

blazey · 09-06-2009, 07:12

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Originally Posted by flashy

like i said in the karma i just took from you....dont underestimate people

I don't think I'm underestimating anyone. You appear to be struggling to find work and yet there is another thread where you are asking when the best time to get pregnant is.

If you want me to estimate you a bit higher, maybe you should a bit more tactful.

flashy · 09-06-2009, 07:24

try reading the thread properly about me wanting to get pregnant

jaysay · 09-06-2009, 08:50

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Originally Posted by Mancie

sometimes people can't accept when a relationship has ended..I left Abbey National 4 years ago but they still send me letters..

For Gods sake give um their money back Mancie

Margaret Pilkington · 09-06-2009, 09:30

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Originally Posted by blazey

And I gave up talking about anything serious that I'm interested in because it tends to be a bit out of the depths of most people on this forum, so I save those conversations for the people who know what they're talking about and vent out my boredom with you lot. I mean, you're all easy enough to convince that I'm being serious most of the time, and the ones who know me well seem to appreciate it quite a bit because they know what I'm doing. Maybe you all need to stop being so serious?

How very patronisingly condescending you are.......and contradictory too.....in one breath you tell us we are all too dim on here to appreciate your superior intellect......and then in the next breath you tell us all that we need to stop being so serious.......now which of these do you mean.

You thrive on the oxygen of other peoples interest, and I, for one, will not now respond to anything else in this thread....and would ask others to perhaps do the same.

blazey · 09-06-2009, 09:38

Are you saying you can't be intellectual and lively? This is why I'm glad I'm at Uni amongst people who want to challenge each other in these ways, and not amongst the people who simply don't understand young people. The world would fall apart if we stuck to these stiff, rigid ideas about the world that some people have.

There are a lot of people on this forum who actually treat me in exactly the same way you are describing, and whilst you were brought up being told to respect your elders, I was told to question and challenge them. Fortunately I get by very well in this world as a result of that and I have been offered a lot of well paid opportunities during my free time because of this. Maybe people shouldn't be so quick off the mark to judge me if they don't like me treating them in the same way in return.

jaysay · 09-06-2009, 09:41

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Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington

How very patronisingly condescending you are.......and contradictory too.....in one breath you tell us we are all too dim on here to appreciate your superior intellect......and then in the next breath you tell us all that we need to stop being so serious.......now which of these do you mean.

You thrive on the oxygen of other peoples interest, and I, for one, will not now respond to anything else in this thread....and would ask others to perhaps do the same.

Don't know about going into Law, the stage would suit her far better Margaret

BERNADETTE · 09-06-2009, 11:25

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Blazey At least I feel genuinely passionate about this, whereas there are a lot of people dossing around on this forum who seem to only find pleasure from the disdain of others.

Do you think that life revolves around what you are passionate about? I am surprised that given the busy, highly successful life you tell us you are leading that you can find the time to visit and let us know how you are doing.
I suggest you are the one treating people with disdain but then again you have already stated elsewhere you come on here to "relieve your boredom". I really do hope that your are as successful in life as you seem to be sure you will be. Otherwise you are going to come down to earth with one hell of a bang.
I for one don't object to being challenged but I do object to being patronised be it by a person older than me or one younger!!!!

shillelagh · 09-06-2009, 13:16

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Originally Posted by blazey

I wouldn't be very intelligent if by the age of 20 I stuck to an idea and never changed it. And those of you who DO know me and talk to me quite often will know better than some of the members on here that I am not as immature and rowdy as I sometimes make out.

At least I feel genuinely passionate about this, whereas there are a lot of people dossing around on this forum who seem to only find pleasure from the disdain of others.

Thanks a bunch ... maybe you should grow up a bit first ... I made a decision when i was 15 ... and ive stuck with that decision since then .. now im nearly 42 and i still agree with that same decision ... does that make me not intelligent... no i dont think it does .. it means i stick by my beliefs whether right or wrong ... and for someone who hasnt even left education yet ... when you've done the same as what ive done in the last 27 years .. well then you can come back and tell me im not intelligent ...

Tealeaf · 09-06-2009, 14:16

Whyever would anyone wish to join a minor party like Labour in the first place?

cashman · 09-06-2009, 14:39

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Originally Posted by Tealeaf

Whyever would anyone wish to join a minor party like Labour in the first place?

Dunno, but it speaks volumes fer the other parties, "ALL" who gained less votes in the last 3 elections.

nicola68 · 09-06-2009, 15:21

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Originally Posted by blazey

whilst you were brought up being told to respect your elders,

I think perhaps you are making assumptions on how people are brought up.

Maybe you were not the only child to be brought up to challenge and question??? I too had this type of upbringing... Where do you think I got that from????
It is having the capacity to know when to challenge and question others in the correct manner, without being condescending.

As far as the labour party is concerned you obviously had the conviction to join, why not have the conviction to stick with them and see what happens in the future or even try to make a difference within the party!

I am sure that they could benefit from your experience and expertise....!