I'm hurting and don't mind admitting I'm crying my eyes out...... - Page 2

accymel · 05-11-2006, 21:53

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Originally Posted by fireman

Its amazin but it is only at times like this that you realize how much of a part close friends play in your life. i WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO SAVE dAVE BUT i KNOW ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. Maybe it is time we all realized that we are only here once and your friends are "your life" money and pocessions mean nothing they are still here when you are not but life is so precious ,,,Yours and your Friends... God life is sometimes a bitch.

So true fireman had that valuable lesson brought to me early in life & i live by the sentiment

entwisi · 05-11-2006, 21:56

As a biker who has already lost friends I_know_ just what friendship means. get out there and live life, its not a dress rehersal................

Gayle · 05-11-2006, 21:56

Friends are very important but being a friend is even more important - from what you've said you are being a good friend by just being there for him right now.

bullseyebarb · 05-11-2006, 22:02

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Originally Posted by fireman

Its amazin but it is only at times like this that you realize how much of a part close friends play in your life. i WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO SAVE dAVE BUT i KNOW ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. Maybe it is time we all realized that we are only here once and your friends are "your life" money and pocessions mean nothing they are still here when you are not but life is so precious ,,,Yours and your Friends... God life is sometimes a bitch.

So true. I feel for you from the bottom of my heart. My darling dad and a beloved aunt died of cancer. All you can do is be at their side as they pass, hold their hand and tell them how much you love and appreciate them.

WillowTheWhisp · 05-11-2006, 22:06

It's so hard to see a dear friend suffering and not be able to do anything to help but the best thing you can do it to be there and be the friend that you are. I know how much it hurts and there is no shame in crying.

fireman · 05-11-2006, 22:10

done all that bullseyebarb but boy when you shared the relationship that we did... when you fought side by side and found that the women you were carrying out of woolworths in manchester on your back were dead the relationship becomes so strong it bloody hurts . but thanks for your thoughts.

bullseyebarb · 05-11-2006, 22:18

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Originally Posted by fireman

done all that bullseyebarb but boy when you shared the relationship that we did... when you fought side by side and found that the women you were carrying out of woolworths in manchester on your back were dead the relationship becomes so strong it bloody hurts . but thanks for your thoughts.

I hear you. Firemen are amongst my personal heroes. If you get to see your friend again before he passes, please tell him how much we appreciate his service to the community.

cherokee · 05-11-2006, 22:22

OMG Fireman you poor thing , no matter what you hear right now nothing will take the hurt you are feeling away .Your friend has probably treasured having you by his side ,I understand the pain you are both going through as I ve been there myself with my ex mum in law .
Dont be affraid to cry ,It does take a bigger man to show his emotions and if only everyone were as lucky to have a friend like you ..
Its so hard to know what to say at time like these only my heart goes out to you and your friend and may time ease your pain ..take care

katex · 05-11-2006, 22:29

Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us Fireman .. a trouble shared they say and we are all listening. x

fireman · 05-11-2006, 22:35

thanks all of you x

jimmi5bellies · 05-11-2006, 22:40

What Cancer Cannot Do

Author: Unknown

Cancer is so limited...
It cannot cripple love.
It cannot shatter hope.
It cannot corrode faith.
It cannot eat away peace.
It cannot destroy confidence.
It cannot kill friendship.
It cannot shut out memories.
It cannot silence courage.
It cannot reduce eternal life.
It cannot quench the Spirit.

andrewb · 05-11-2006, 22:48

*tear* That is so heart breaking

You're a great friend to him

fireman · 05-11-2006, 23:01

immi5bellies that really helps // thankyou for that x

LancYorkYankee · 05-11-2006, 23:24

Hey Fireman, so sorry for your pain and suffering!

I appreciate the kind sentiments and support you've received from your Accyweb family!

Brian

Debbie J · 05-11-2006, 23:26

Apart from knowing how you feel, in that I have lost many to this horrid disease including my Mum. I don't know what I can say as everyone has said it before me. But if you need an ear or a shoulder give me a shout.