is it selfish ..... - Page 2

jaysay · 19-02-2009, 10:44

I agree with most of the comments on this, it has to be personal choice, but cutting your cloth according to its width springs to mind, I was an only one but have 2 daughters who have produced 3 grandkids, one and half each

cherokee · 19-02-2009, 11:32

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Originally Posted by flashy

1 was more than enough for me, he was planned, i never ever planned to have anymore...so i didnt...i dont care what anyone says, if you dont want kids then you dont have them, if you are not using the right precautions then you obviously want more kids, all this bull when women say 'i had my other kids cos my contraception failed' is utter crap, in 12 years mine has never failed...

if you wish to have a larger family then so be it, at least be honest about it and stop calling your kids 'mistakes' when they arent

ok rant over, think i'll go take my pill now

In fairness Shaz not all contraceptives have a 100% protection
On the other hand the options are given these days and some are better than others.
There are an awful lot of lasses who blame getting pregnant on thier contraception failing and yes I agree (what a load of tosh)
If contraception failed so often then it would be time for the government to be looking at the whole picture all over again.
I am inclined to disbelieve many who blame their contraception

Again I agree with you If kids are not wanted then take precautions. and thats not just aimed at women either same goes for fellas.
This day and age there are no excuses . If you get pregnant then the odds are it was planned or something would have been done to prevent iot.
Sorry just MO..

jem · 19-02-2009, 11:55

its not selfish to have more then two kid coz if you think about the many pepole out there who cant have children people who can can make the numbers up

cashman · 19-02-2009, 12:04

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Originally Posted by jem

its not selfish to have more then two kid coz if you think about the many pepole out there who cant have children people who can can make the numbers up

even if they can't afford em?

jem · 19-02-2009, 12:11

not if they cant afford but ppl who can

jambutty · 19-02-2009, 13:20

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Originally Posted by garinda

and keep your beaks out of other people's business.

Good advice.

Have you tried taking it yourself?

garinda · 19-02-2009, 13:26

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Originally Posted by jambutty

Good advice.

Have you tried taking it yourself?

As stated in my post I believe people should be free to chose what they want to do with their lives.

I'd be really interested for you to provide evidence where I've preached what I think other people should do with their own lives.

I shall wait with bated breath for you to provide evidence to back up your claim.

The clock's ticking.

garinda · 19-02-2009, 13:38

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Originally Posted by jambutty

Good advice.

Have you tried taking it yourself?

Bless, are you feeling all left out, and ignored?

emzy · 19-02-2009, 14:00

I don't think its selfish if you can afford to raise the kids and give them the love and guidance that they need and deserve.

Personally, I have 2 and that is enough for me

(saying that though, I am a single parent so in no way would I think about having another child unless in a stable relationship which I knew was going to last)

garinda · 20-02-2009, 02:34

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Originally Posted by garinda

As stated in my post I believe people should be free to chose what they want to do with their lives.

I'd be really interested for you to provide evidence where I've preached what I think other people should do with their own lives.

I shall wait with bated breath for you to provide evidence to back up your claim.

The clock's ticking.

I hope he's not still beavering away, over twelve hours later, going through all my old posts.

I'll give you a little clue.

There is no evidence to be found.

accyman · 20-02-2009, 03:14

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Originally Posted by garinda

I hope he's not still beavering away, over twelve hours later, going through all my old posts.

I'll give you a little clue.

There is no evidence to be found.

hes probbaly still looking at my avatar and wondering why everyone else sees a picture of a teddybear yet all he sees is a polite notice