Kids of today - Page 3

thomas_045 · 24-01-2006, 21:48

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Originally Posted by WillowTheWhisp

I suppose I must be an old fogey too because I'd much prefer a healthy debate with rational points put forward whether they agree with me or disagree than to have childish digs and snide remarks and name-calling which disagreements can sometimes descend into. There simply isn't any need for sarcasm when trying to put forward an opposing point of view and doing so does tend to cause antagonism, especially when done by a newbie.

My first quote wasnt in any way sarcastic. Neither was it rude. The original poster agreed with what I said! So how could it have possibly been offensive?

The reason sarcasm has evolved, is because Entwisi felt he needed to patronise me, and talk to me like im 3 years old.

And what has me being a newbie got to do with anything? Ive been on this site before, just never expressed my opinions as much.

buttonsmum · 24-01-2006, 21:55

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Originally Posted by thomas_045

The original poster agreed with what I said! So how could it have possibly been offensive?
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I never said i agreed with what you said, what i did say to your reply was 'i asked for that' as my wording was quite loose.

thomas_045 · 24-01-2006, 21:56

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Originally Posted by buttonsmum

I never said i agreed with what you said, what i did say to your reply was 'i asked for that' as my wording was quite loose.

Ok fair point. Telling me you asked for it came across like you agreed with my reaction. But whatever.

WillowTheWhisp · 24-01-2006, 21:57

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Originally Posted by thomas_045

Wake up and smell the coffeee love.

That came across as very patronising. Perhaps you didn't intend it to, but that was how it appeared.

shakermaker · 24-01-2006, 21:59

it always happens.....people think they are big and clever using a cleche and just come across as a complete arse.

Madhatter · 24-01-2006, 22:03

So you don't agree julie? in what way don't you agree? are you saying all kids are the same? cos I'm lost now .

mez · 24-01-2006, 22:04

with respect to all that have posted on here ....the point being .........THE CENETAPH.... did our ancesters ie; dads, uncles , grandads etc; not fight 2 wars ? ....is that not what the cenetaph is placed there for ..........REMEMBERANCE .......not ignorance .

entwisi · 24-01-2006, 22:08

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Originally Posted by thomas_045

I didnt 'go off on one' at all. I gave my opinion. And wasnt even attempting to start an argument. I think your just a bit afraid as one young person has come on your precious site and caused a bit of controversy. I clearly stated my opinion in this thread, and most people (expect you) agreed. Even the person who made the thread amitted she kind of asked for it.

And please dont go patronising me about being on the internet longer than me. Experience means nothing. I most probably have the same amount of knowledge on the internet/computers as you do. If anyone is being childish here, its you.

This is not MY precious site at all, it is a community of wide and varied people with many differing opinions. I have in the past and will always stand up for the right for someone(young or old) to hold their opinion even if that opinion doesn't fit with my own. The lady who started the thread admitted her wording could have been better. I

Without wanting to sound like my bits are bigger than yours, If you had spent any time on Accyweb and had read my profile particularly my job description you will probably find that your experience probably falls far short of my own. I can take you through most aspects of computers from micro embedded devices through to mutiple processor servers used by blue chip companies. I can program in numerous languages, design, build, test and deploy SOA architecture(go on google it) or I can rescue your poorly PC with equal aplomb.

Madhatter · 24-01-2006, 22:10

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Originally Posted by thomas_045

I think your being very stereotypical. "kids of today". Im 16 (a teenager) Male. And wouldnt think of climbing any war memorial, or doing anything else un-respectable. Wake up and smell the coffeee love. Not ALL 'kids of today' are like that.

An adult was walking down my street, drunk out his face the other night. He was quick to shout abuse and threaten me. (For no apparent reason, yes). The adults of today! What are they like eh!

Wake up and smell the coffee to me is saying think about what your saying. Age and experience of posting does come into it, but as adults and experienced posters you should be able to make allowances for that and still get the 'point' of the post.

get back to thread anyway you've deviated

. no deviation hesitation or repetition allowed

buttonsmum · 24-01-2006, 22:12

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Originally Posted by Madhatter

So you don't agree julie? in what way don't you agree? are you saying all kids are the same? cos I'm lost now .

I didn't agree with Thomas' version, what i was agreeing with was that my wording could have been better and no I don't think all kids are the same it was a loose statement aimed to start a debate not a slagging match.

Madhatter · 24-01-2006, 22:12

Thank you mez

Madhatter · 24-01-2006, 22:15

So you agree not all kids are the same which is what he said, what you didn't agree with is that he was saying YOU were saying all kids are the same, because it only appeared that you were saying that because you wrote it as a loose statement. sorted.

thomas_045 · 24-01-2006, 22:15

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Originally Posted by entwisi

This is not MY precious site at all, it is a community of wide and varied people with many differing opinions. I have in the past and will always stand up for the right for someone(young or old) to hold their opinion even if that opinion doesn't fit with my own. The lady who started the thread admitted her wording could have been better. I

Without wanting to sound like my bits are bigger than yours, If you had spent any time on Accyweb and had read my profile particularly my job description you will probably find that your experience probably falls far short of my own. I can take you through most aspects of computers from micro embedded devices through to mutiple processor servers used by blue chip companies. I can program in numerous languages, design, build, test and deploy SOA architecture(go on google it) or I can rescue your poorly PC with equal aplomb.

Hahahahaha. I think its about time you took your head from out of your arse. You really dont impress.

And yes, I have looked on your profile. The interest in 'booze' stood out more than anything. I mean, some people do like the odd drink now and again, but to take an interest in it! Well... all I can say is you must lead a very sad, boring life.

harwood red · 24-01-2006, 23:00

Right lets get some context of this.... without going into what the original argument or debate!! was about, lets just say that Entwisi is a highly thought of and respected member of this forum who on numerous occasions has helped many members out especially when it has come to computer problems, often going to people's homes to do it. He has also stuck up for people when he has thought they are being unfairly treated on here... so now we know entwisi is a clever comp techi who like to fight for the underdog... most of the time

Now thomas I would also like to see you as a highly thought of and respected member of this forum and I have to say it's great to see some young blood on here with such strong views and not afraid to express them and long may you continue to do that. Please do take into account that when someone gives an opinion it is not maybe always a direct attack and if you feel that some of your posts have been taken the wrong way then maybe it's just we need time to adjust to the way that you form your posts just like we did with that cheeky minx shakermaker

If I can give any advice, not that I'm sure it's worth an ounce to anyone, is that we take a step back before we jump headlong into replying to any posts and maybe put ourselves in the other persons shoes and that is not directed at anyone in particular but to all......enough said

Anyway kids climbing memorial.....

shakermaker · 24-01-2006, 23:04

oi!...mouth!!

lol shes right you know.....