men!!!

shiny gem · 23-08-2005, 15:48

ok this seems to be a common thing for me... a guy shows interest, he askes me on a date, he cancells before said date and i never hear from him again!! can anybody help.... is it me or them???

Mick · 23-08-2005, 15:55

Ok come to the Accyweb meeting on the 27th at 7 - 30pm in the STAG inn at Church and we can talk about it and (thats a date)

Tinkerbelle · 23-08-2005, 15:56

OH NO babe he didn't!! .......... is this the one we were waiting for a text from?

I have a solution for you

... YOU cancel the date before they do ......... hope this helps

shiny gem · 23-08-2005, 15:58

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle

OH NO babe he didn't!! .......... is this the one we were waiting for a text from?

I have a solution for you

... YOU cancel the date before they do ......... hope this helps

lol...yes he did... sent me a lovely text saying he was trying to play it cool but couldnt wait any longer and really really wanted to take me out. he then sent me a text the next day saying something had come up and he wouldnt be able to make it...this was friday and i havent heard a peep since!!

shiny gem · 23-08-2005, 16:00

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Originally Posted by mick

Ok come to the Accyweb meeting on the 27th at 7 - 30pm in the STAG inn at Church and we can talk about it and (thats a date)

lol..ill try my best. my best friend and my ex are trying to drag me out to celebrate my birthday so i may only be able to stay a while if i can manage to talk them into going.

lettie · 23-08-2005, 16:02

I think this has happened to most of us at some point Gem. At least he cancelled and didn't stand you up. I remember something similar happening to me once. I pretended that he'd had a serious accident.......Hehehe, made me feel better...

shiny gem · 23-08-2005, 16:19

as long as its them and not me then!!! lol

Tinkerbelle · 23-08-2005, 16:22

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Originally Posted by shiny gem

he then sent me a text the next day saying something had come up and he wouldnt be able to make it

Maybe he was embarrssed and might re-arrnge the date when it's gone down

His loss chick!! There's plenty more fish in the sea ..... omg was that my mum typing

slinky · 23-08-2005, 16:23

Oh dear gem..............................text himand tell him that you had a lovely time on the date, as he didn't turn up, you actually went on your own and met a lovely bloke there, really good looking, charming, loaded and he is the most lovely man you have ever met. Then thank him and say " if it wasn't for you cancelling our date, I wouldn't have met this lovely guy, so thankyou so much".

shiny gem · 23-08-2005, 16:27

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle

Maybe he was embarrssed and might re-arrnge the date when it's gone down

His loss chick!! There's plenty more fish in the sea ..... omg was that my mum typing

lol...ah mums...arent they great, full of brilliant advise like that!!! and seeing as though its national fishing week....best get my fly fishing book out...hmm j.r. hartley here i come!!! lol

Mick · 23-08-2005, 16:30

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Originally Posted by shiny gem

lol..ill try my best. my best friend and my ex are trying to drag me out to celebrate my birthday so i may only be able to stay a while if i can manage to talk them into going.

PLEASE bring your friends along they will be made welcome

shiny gem · 23-08-2005, 16:45

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Originally Posted by mick

PLEASE bring your friends along they will be made welcome

ill try my best...it is my birthday after all..they should bow to my demands!!! ahem i mean if i ask nicely... lol

Mick · 23-08-2005, 16:54

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Originally Posted by shiny gem

ill try my best...it is my birthday after all..they should bow to my demands!!! ahem i mean if i ask nicely... lol

good it will be nice to meet you and your friends even if its just for 1 drink
as its your birhday (as long as it comes up on accyweb birthdays) i will buy you a drink promise

grego · 23-08-2005, 19:02

There maybe a perfectly good reason Shiny Gem, he might be thinking treat em mean keep em keen! Alternatively he may have been a bit drunk and therefore had the courage to ask, then lost his bottle.

lettie · 23-08-2005, 19:09

Or......he may be just a git....

I would go with Slinky's suggestion and text him anyway, say that you took yourself out, had a brilliant time and met the man of your dreams.