morale dilemma!!!

honey · 05-08-2005, 15:09

Would like peoples views on a morale dilemma that I have. Would like some advice please. I have this friend and I know that his wife is cheating on him. I am dead against people cheating on each other but don't want to cause a break up either. Would you tell him? Help please!!!

baby boo · 05-08-2005, 15:29

hi honey does the wife know that you know? if not id talk to her and tell her that you dont want your friend to get hurt i would also ask her to stop and admit to him herself if not then i would tell him. i know it would cause a break up but in the end your friend is getting hurt although (i take it he doesnt know about it) if he found out off someone else and also found out that if you knew and didnt tell him would he not go mad at that too? good luck!!

Tealeaf · 05-08-2005, 15:29

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Originally Posted by honey

Would like peoples views on a morale dilemma that I have. Would like some advice please. I have this friend and I know that his wife is cheating on him. I am dead against people cheating on each other but don't want to cause a break up either. Would you tell him? Help please!!!

Well, if I was you I would learn to spell moral. Once you've done that then your morale will be somewhat higher. You should then have the confidence to have a quiet word with your friend's wife informing her of the error of her ways and tactfully suggest she ceases to play away from home.

sweetpea · 05-08-2005, 15:44

Sounds like a tough one. Having been in a situation a month ago, I confronted the b***h who had been messing with my husband. (excuse my language), It caused alot of upset. I found alot of comfort talking to HER husband though. Everything seems to be on the up now though. I would recommend you bring it out in the open.

Roy · 05-08-2005, 15:48

Sweetpea, why are you talking to yourself?

In case anyone is wondering, sweetpea and honey are 1 and the same.