Pole dancing

jason · 27-03-2005, 19:29

Silver disco balls spin red lip-shaped lights around the room and Britney Spears' "Oops I did it again" blares as Debbie gives herself a cheeky slap on the left buttock.

In school uniform, suspenders and high heels, she struts confidently around the pole, hooks her leg around it and swings to the ground before rippling back up. Flicking her long hair aside, she pauses to glance over her shoulder at the audience.

But contrary to appearances, Debbie is no pole pro. She's a 42-year-old married banker in London who has just completed a six-week beginners' course in pole dancing at My Pole Dance School in London.

She is one of growing numbers of urban British women -- from bankers and accountants to charity workers and housewives -- who are using poles to get fit and get sexy.

Gyms and pole dancing schools are reporting a huge surge in enrolment, supposedly inspired by model Kate Moss's sultry pole performance in the recent pop video by White Stripes and the film "Closer", in which Natalie Portman plays a stripper.

"It brings out the raunchy side in everyone," says fellow pole apprentice Sam, 29, who works in children's TV by day and frequents fetish clubs by night, a pastime hinted at by her six inch perspex and PVC heels.

"It's a way for people to put the spice back into their marriages," she added. "Unlike an aerobics class, this is something you can take back and share with your man."

SEEDY OR JUST SEXY?

Gone are the days when pole dancing was seen as the preserve of the sleaze industry, an activity performed by over-made up doll-like women before leering men in dingy strip joints.

Well, almost gone.

"My husband was a bit shocked to start with. He thought I was going through a life change," said Debbie, who was desperate to keep her secret from her banking colleagues. "I'd hate them to find out. It has a real stigma (but) if you do it, you realise it's fun and not seedy.

Professional stripper Maxxx Dobroslavic says women in Britain are discovering a new freedom in themselves, becoming more aware of their bodies and experimental with their sexuality.

"Women are wishing to have fun expressing their sexuality. Pole and lap dancing, striptease is all very much a part of that."

Stripping and dancing also make women feel more confident and that extends to other areas of their lives, said Maxxx, winner of the 2001 UK Pole Dancing Competition.

Hard-core feminists may disagree.

"If you come from a secure economic background and you've got education then it isn't such a big thing to play with sex tourism. If you don't have these your status is very different," said Paula Black, a sociology lecturer at Sussex University.

The latest craze in erotic dancing doesn't change the way men look at women's bodies as sexual objects and puts pressure on women to achieve in yet another area, she said.

"It's not always about throwing off inhibitions. It's almost like we see sex as a hobby. It's something we have to get right."

BOOMING DEMAND

But judging by the popularity of pole dancing classes and the euphoric atmosphere in the classroom, it seems women are brushing off negative perceptions around the activity.

Such is the demand for lessons that self-taught dancer Vanessa Lam is giving up her full-time day job as an accountant to devote herself to the pole dancing business she and her sister Fiona, a policewoman, set up.

In just three years, My Pole Dance School has expanded from classes in a poky room in southeast London to a business with "schools" catering to individuals, hen parties and birthday groups held in night clubs in eight cities around England.

Jumping on the trend, gyms and companies like lastminute.com and Activity Superstore, offering lifestyle experiences, are signing up with My Pole.

Some department stores have brought in pole dancers to spice up the shopping experience.

At the start of the six-week course, the women are timid and self-conscious. By the end, they are ordering poles to install at home, snapping up the skimpy outfits sold in packets so small they look like they are for tights, and signing up for the intermediate course.

Some are even talking of going professional.

Sara, 36, sporting hot pants, a bustier and black boots, teaches yoga and fitness but now wants to expand to pole dancing, teaming up with Luciana, 32, whom she met on the course.

Long after the end of the class, the two keep practising their dance routines, videoing each other on their mobiles for their partners at home.

"When you watch it done professionally it's an art, it's beautiful to watch. It's like gymnastics on a pole," said Sara.

Some more adventurous men are even taking part. On a recent Saturday, Michael, a former dancer, booked a session with My Pole to celebrate his 36th birthday with a group of 10 friends.

"It's acceptably sleazy. It gives women a chance to bring the slutty side out that they don't get to normally and men the girlie side," said TV producer Barry before slithering down the pole to hoots of laughter from Michael and his friends.

Any female members fancy doing a pole dancing lesson?.........in my very own club............lol

Tinkerbelle · 27-03-2005, 19:45

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Originally Posted by jason

Any female members fancy doing a pole dancing lesson?.........in my very own club............lol

I'll try anything once

No on a seious note I don't think there is the stigma attached to pole dancing anymore it is an extremely sexy thing when done properly, both for the woman to perform and a man too watch.

Sadly most of my pole dancing is performed with a lamp post on Church St. at the end of a very drunken night right Accy

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garinda · 27-03-2005, 23:35

Lol, Lordy, Lordy!
In one of my introduction threads l wrote that l pole danced with Kate Moss, at my mate Julien MacDonalds post fashion show party in September 2001. Now she thinks she's good enough to do it in videos, all l can say is l taught her well.
Now l'm back from London l will be holding Oswaldtwistle's first Pole Dancing Academy, every other Wednesday at 2pm. in my front room, pole provided.

Neil · 27-03-2005, 23:48

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle

Sadly most of my pole dancing is performed with a lamp post on Church St. at the end of a very drunken night right Accy

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Maybe a picture is required for the gallery

slinky · 27-03-2005, 23:51

hehehe tinks yep I think we make very good pole dancers on church street, and the thing that is REALLY GOOD is that we are free to watch!!!!!!!!!! (not mentioning the little peep show in the taxi rank window that time)

garinda · 27-03-2005, 23:52

We were actually joined on the podium by the Big Brother runner-up Anna, the ex-lesbian nun. Before you start clamouring for three way girl action pictures, l suggest you read my profile!

Tinkerbelle · 27-03-2005, 23:57

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Originally Posted by slinky

hehehe tinks yep I think we make very good pole dancers on church street, and the thing that is REALLY GOOD is that we are free to watch!!!!!!!!!! (not mentioning the little peep show in the taxi rank window that time)

OMG Slinky I don't believe you just reminded me of that I am sat her with a real blush on

if I blame it on beer and being extremely drunk will it take it away

PLEASE!

Neil · 28-03-2005, 00:02

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Originally Posted by slinky

hehehe tinks yep I think we make very good pole dancers on church street, and the thing that is REALLY GOOD is that we are free to watch!!!!!!!!!! (not mentioning the little peep show in the taxi rank window that time)

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle

OMG Slinky I don't believe you just reminded me of that I am sat her with a real blush on

if I blame it on beer and being extremely drunk will it take it away

PLEASE!

Nope its here for good now ( unless she edits it

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slinky · 28-03-2005, 00:06

NOPE NO EDITING........... but I remember the mans face that was looking in at us hehehehehehehehe SISTER ACT OR WHAT LMAO

garinda · 28-03-2005, 00:09

No wonder l can never get a friggin' taxi, they're all watching you two getting down and dirty in Church St!

Tinkerbelle · 28-03-2005, 00:10

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Originally Posted by Neil

Nope its here for good now ( unless she edits it

)

Then I am never drinking again !!!

WillowTheWhisp · 28-03-2005, 00:13

Was that a pig flying over the AccyWeb forum?

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jelly baby · 28-03-2005, 10:12

My daughter, a dancer and entertainer (not lap or strip!!) is currently training to be a pole dancer. you have to be incredibly flexible and fit to do this with good upper body strength to enable you to do the flips etc. Many people think that it's a bit sleazy but I can vouch that it is not. She works in nightclubs all over the country and is never asked to do anything risque. Her outfits usually consist of custom made bikini types. It is a well paid job especially if she does an angle grinding and stiltwalking routine as well. Her full time occupation is as a sports development officer with a nearby council, but she is leavig for London at the end of March to take up a few of the many job offers that she has been offered. She started entertaining mainly whilst at Uni, to pay her way through.

jason · 28-03-2005, 10:58

I think we should organize a get together for the female members to come up with a dance routine to show the fellas,what do you think to that tinks.....might even buy you half a lager.......lol!