Pregnant Man????

[Lolly]

Originally Posted by panther

The other woman cant be a lesbian!
if she is then why would she want the girlfriend to change to a man???
might as well go out and get a fella!

also if the "fella wanabe" wants to be a man then why on earth did she/he decide to carry the child...(be the one to get pregnant)....daft buggers!....LOL

He had to carry the child because his wife has had a hysterectomy.

[grannyclaret]

Originally Posted by emamum23

personally dont see what all the fuss is about!
the wife is female, it says in the report.
Basically all this is is 2 lesbians having a baby, whats wrong with that?

its sick thats all.....poor little kid

[emamum]

but why is it sick?

[BERNADETTE]

Originally Posted by Lolly

Why is it sick?? They aren't harming anyone. They obviously want to be parents very much and would probably dote on their child.

Gay men and women have children. So why not these?

I can't believe you don't see any harm in this. How do you think the child will feel when it finds out that it's daddy was the one who gave birth to him/her. Kids have enough to deal with and this is enough to harm any child when they find out.

[garinda]

According to this the 'father' was a turkey baster.

American man claims to be six months pregnant with a baby girl | the Daily Mail

[Lolly]

Originally Posted by BERNADETTE

I can't believe you don't see any harm in this. How do you think the child will feel when it finds out that it's daddy was the one who gave birth to him/her. Kids have enough to deal with and this is enough to harm any child when they find out.

If it was me I wouldn't tell the child until they were old enough to fully understand. If I was the child it wouldn't bother me in the slightest as long as I had two parents who loved me and brought me up well, so what?? To be honest I'd just be happy to know my father, some of us haven't had that luxury in life.

[emzy]

I dont think that I agree or disagree with what they have done. My thought is how the child is going to take it when they are older and also how it will deal with the agro it WILL get when it is older

[BERNADETTE]

Originally Posted by Lolly

If it was me I wouldn't tell the child until they were old enough to fully understand. If I was the child it wouldn't bother me in the slightest as long as I had two parents who loved me and brought me up well, so what?? To be honest I'd just be happy to know my father, some of us haven't had that luxury in life.

Well we will agree to disagree on this one. I find it hard to believe the child will not be affected.

[Less]

Originally Posted by emamum23

EVERYONE has the right to be a parent!!!!



*i think sexual preferences not how i meant to explain it but i am soooooo angry right now i cant think straight!!*

No, every one doesn't have the right to be a parent, parenthood is a natural thing, for a 'normal couple'.
If however that couple are, 'not normal', and here I class normal to be male & female, A lesbian couple or a gay couple in all practicalities cannot produce a child, that is a sacrifice they must make to be accepted as 'normal' for them in my eyes.
If lesbians and gays can find love together fine I've no problem, when they introduce into that factor a child that has to grow up with 'artificial', parents then I'm sorry the couple are not being responsible, they are producing a living being to fulfil their needs, that is selfish.

Why are you angry? Is there something you are fighting for that you already know is wrong?

[emamum]

who are you to say whats 'normal'?

Being Gay does not take away their ability to have children or be good parents! in fact i know same sex couples that are fantastic parents, better than those that churn out children because they have nothing better to do then have them taken into care!

I am angry that yet again people are being small minded and showing prejudice!

[Reidy]

This is one of those subjects that i think there is no right and no wrong answer for, each person has thier own view and opinions on what is right or wrong but neither persons views would be correct in the others eyes, its a no win argument!!

[Lolly]

Originally Posted by Less

No, every one doesn't have the right to be a parent, parenthood is a natural thing, for a 'normal couple'.
If however that couple are, 'not normal', and here I class normal to be male & female, A lesbian couple or a gay couple in all practicalities cannot produce a child, that is a sacrifice they must make to be accepted as 'normal' for them in my eyes.
If lesbians and gays can find love together fine I've no problem, when they introduce into that factor a child that has to grow up with 'artificial', parents then I'm sorry the couple are not being responsible, they are producing a living being to fulfil their needs, that is selfish.

Why are you angry? Is there something you are fighting for that you already know is wrong?

I'm sorry but that thinking is exactly why its taken so long for civil partnerships & gay couples being allowed to adopt. And quite frankly I think its pathetic!! Who are you to say how a couple, be they what you'd call "normal" or not, would be as parents??

So a "normal" couple who produce a child aren't fulfilling their needs are they not? And what about gay couples who adopt? Are they being selfish? They aren't giving a needy child a chance at a better life?

I know a gay couple (men) who have had a child, its one of the couples biologically, and they are two of the best parents I know. The child is happy, healthy and bright. And even at 5 years old understands that his family is a bit different.

[Less]

Originally Posted by emamum23

who are you to say whats 'normal'?

Being Gay does not take away their ability to have children or be good parents! in fact i know same sex couples that are fantastic parents, better than those that churn out children because they have nothing better to do then have them taken into care!

I am angry that yet again people are being small minded and showing prejudice!

Nothing I have said is against 'gays', all I'm against is the silly people that seem to think that same sex partnerships can and should produce children.

There are many gay couples that had 'normal' partnerships before they got together and they are still good parents, sometimes better than most. But once a person goes down the road of same sex relationships surely parenthood should not even be considered?

If it was natural, (same sex conception, not same sex,sex), then there would be teenage homosexuals getting caught out with unwanted pregnancies by experimenting just as 'normal', teenage couples are to this day?

[emamum]

So what your suggesting is that they 'play straight' produce a couple of kids and THEN have a same sex realationship?

[Less]

Originally Posted by emamum23

So what your suggesting is that they 'play straight' produce a couple of kids and THEN have a same sex realationship?

Don't talk wet, you know that's not what I mean.