so my mum died this afternoon... - Page 5

cashman · 23-01-2008, 23:22

try not to let it stress ya, so they may not talk to ya again- so what? if they are like that they aint worth it, arranging n leaving others to pay is not a nice thing to do, so DONT let em stress ya, slong as you n yer sisters are ok, stuff the rest if thats how they wanna play.

Retlaw · 24-01-2008, 00:13

You could always attend the funeral,
but observe from a distance, don't let
those other relatives see you, just your sister

Take a camera use it just to prove to the
dissenters that you were there.

you could regret in years to come that you were'nt
there.

Retlaw.

Sue1 · 24-01-2008, 18:14

When you go to a funeral you go to pay your respects to a loved one usually - sounds as though the umbilical cord snapped a while ago. Sadly, no one can make the decision to go or not to go for you. Good luck whatever your decision.

bullseyebarb · 25-01-2008, 16:33

Oh, I am just loving the postscript! So pleased that you will receive a share of your mother's estate. Accept it gladly and pay no heed to what the relatives may say. It's karma, my friend.

Margaret Pilkington · 25-01-2008, 21:28

Have no qualms about your inheritance........it is yours and the relatives who may shun you because of what you inherit, aren't fit to be called relatives.

derekgas · 26-01-2008, 13:59

I feel glad that you decided to go, no-one can ever throw it back at you that way, the house thing is probably a long way from settled, the rellies will probably do anything to get thier hands on the house, or stop the sale, and the proceeds going where they should, I wish you well with this.