To be married or not to be married..... - Page 5

jaysay · 01-12-2011, 19:38

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Originally Posted by cashman

Can't understand that........He didn't seem stupid when i met him.

We he obviously isn't, he hasn't asked her

walkinman221 · 01-12-2011, 20:01

Get your dad to borrow my shotgun that should do the trick heth

Margaret Pilkington · 01-12-2011, 20:04

No, Heth, you do not need a shotgun.
Why take a hammer to a nut? Unless you like your nuts smashed to smithereens

Employ the subtler methods. I'm sure I don't need to draw you a picture.

cashman · 01-12-2011, 20:05

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Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington

Employ the subtler methods. I'm sure I don't need to draw you a picture.

yeh but others may like one.

Margaret Pilkington · 01-12-2011, 20:09

What and get the thread moved over to the over 18's section......you know I can't get in there Cashy!

Oh, and I should say I am bad............................................... at drawing.

MargaretR · 01-12-2011, 20:21

I don't like the idea of conniving the poor chap into a marriage.
If he wants it he will ask. 'Trapping' him may cause him to resent the situation a few years down the line.

PS During our 17 years together my last partner and I had an agreement.
If one of us ever became overwhelmed by the romance of the moment and proposed, the other should always say 'NO' - it worked.

heth · 01-12-2011, 20:38

Take what I said with a pinch of salt thats why I put a smily at the end!

Yes it would be nice to be asked but it will happen when it happens, and if that means me asking him when the time is right then so be it.

I do appreciate all the comments made and yes Cashy he is a bit stupid!!!

Margaret Pilkington · 01-12-2011, 20:41

Heth, just stay happy......that is all you really need....someone you can be happy with.

walkinman221 · 01-12-2011, 20:45

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Originally Posted by heth

Take what I said with a pinch of salt thats why I put a smily at the end!

Yes it would be nice to be asked but it will happen when it happens, and if that means me asking him when the time is right then so be it.

I do appreciate all the comments made and yes Cashy he is a bit stupid!!!

So do i need to clean me gun or not??

heth · 01-12-2011, 20:54

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Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington

Heth, just stay happy......that is all you really need....someone you can be happy with.

Aye thats what we are and thats the way its staying!

heth · 01-12-2011, 20:55

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Originally Posted by walkinman221

So do i need to clean me gun or not??

Nah not yet, maybe one day!!

Could get less years than if I marry!!

cashman · 01-12-2011, 22:15

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Originally Posted by MargaretR

I don't like the idea of conniving the poor chap into a marriage.
If he wants it he will ask. 'Trapping' him may cause him to resent the situation a few years down the line.

PS During our 17 years together my last partner and I had an agreement.
If one of us ever became overwhelmed by the romance of the moment and proposed, the other should always say 'NO' - it worked.

People are jesting as heth probably is also, have yeh had a sense of humour bypass?

heth · 01-12-2011, 23:00

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Originally Posted by cashman

People are jesting as heth probably is also, have yeh had a sense of humour bypass?

Aye I am, Que Sera Sera

lettie · 02-12-2011, 09:50

It's Leap Year next year Heth..... May be time to ask him then

jaysay · 02-12-2011, 10:13

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Originally Posted by Margaret Pilkington

Heth, just stay happy......that is all you really need....someone you can be happy with.

Can't agree more Margaret, some years ago I had a mate who lived with his girlfriend for ages 8 or 9 years and all the lads and the landlord of the local kept ribbing him about making an honest woman of her, he finally gave in, they decided to get wed, we all went to the wedding twas a great day and they lived happily ever after, well for 6 months until they split up