How to be a good wife
(Extract from a 1950's Home Economics Workbook)
Have Dinner Ready
Plan ahead even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
Prepare Yourself
Take 15 minutes to rest so that you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with alot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a liitle more interseting. His boring day may need a lift.
Clear Away The Clutter
Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper etc. Then run a duster over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order and it will give you a lift too.
Prepare The Children
Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces. Comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.
Minimise All Noise
At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noises of the washer or vacuum cleaner. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.
Don't Greet Him With Problems
Don't complain if he's late for dinner. Count this minor compared with what he might have gone through that day. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest that he lies down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take his shoes off. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.
Listen To Him
You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.
Make The Evening His
Never complain if he does not take you to dinner or to other places of entertainment. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relaxed.
The Goal
Try to make your home a place of peace and order, where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.