Promises Promises!!!!! - Page 2

slinky · 31-10-2005, 23:03

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Originally Posted by Doug

I also think your right, but all to often the burden of secrets leads to friend falling out. Can I ask, If a friend told you a secret that would eventually lead to the end of a relationship or put another at risk would you still keep it?

PM me if you like I promise I won't say anything.....

Lol doug, if i thought it would end a relationship or put someone at risk...I think even better you keep the secret.
People do things in life that they regret. Imagine after 4 years...yes 4 years, someone tells your secret, the person being a "a good friend" and ends your relationship. NO!!!! secrets are secrets for life, not just for christmas!!!!!

Tinkerbelle · 31-10-2005, 23:06

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Originally Posted by Doug

If a friend told you a secret that would eventually lead to the end of a relationship or put another at risk would you still keep it?

A secret is a secret. If that person trusts you enough to tell you in the first place then I would NEVER betray that trust regardless of reasons!

Doug · 31-10-2005, 23:10

If your best friend at work came to you and said can I tell you a secret, then tells you he/she get money each week off one of your residents and was planning to ask for more, would you still keep to your principles.

slinky · 31-10-2005, 23:14

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Originally Posted by Doug

If your best friend at work came to you and said can I tell you a secret, then tells you he/she get money each week off one of your residents and was planning to ask for more, would you still keep to your principles.

OMG no way doug!!!!!!!!!!!

That is hurting vulnerable people. No that aint no secret that is a b''''ards trick

. That is breaking the law, not keeping a secret

Doug · 31-10-2005, 23:21

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Originally Posted by slinky

OMG no way doug!!!!!!!!!!!

That is hurting vulnerable people. No that aint no secret that is a b''''ards trick

. That is breaking the law, not keeping a secret

Thank you........you can continue to be my friend.

Sometimes a secret can't be kept and for good reason.. But if there is no good reason for divulging it, then I agree a secret is a secret.

slinky · 31-10-2005, 23:29

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Originally Posted by Doug

Thank you........you can continue to be my friend.

Sometimes a secret can't be kept and for good reason.. But if there is no good reason for divulging it, then I agree a secret is a secret.

Hurting vulnerable people such as the elderly is a ******* trick I agree doug and the word WHISTLEBLOWING comes to mind.

But the meaning a secret in the open world, between two people that are totally sane and knew what they were doing I meant. The secret that could mean other peoples world could shatter if the secret be told.

Lets say for instance, you had four friends, and one of them four friends had a affair 5 years ago, but, you have just found out!! would you after 5 years divulge this secret that you was told from your wife/husband/friend??

My thoughts are..........it was SO long ago that no way would you break a happy couple up now after SO long!!!!!

Would it be worth it?? no way.

Doug · 31-10-2005, 23:31

I agree...........

Tinkerbelle · 31-10-2005, 23:35

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Originally Posted by slinky

Lets say for instance, you had four friends, and one of them four friends had a affair 5 years ago, but, you have just found out!! would you after 5 years divulge this secret that you was told from your wife/husband/friend??

I would most definately be questioning the persons motive for wanting to hurt the people, what is too be achieved by telling people the secret? It smacks of spite and vindictivness to me!

Doug · 31-10-2005, 23:39

I agree...

slinky · 31-10-2005, 23:39

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle

I would most definately be questioning the persons motive for wanting to hurt the people, what is too be achieved by telling people the secret? It smacks of spite and vindictivness to me!

Again tinks ............... you are right, see w are sisters after all lol

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No matter what mum and dad told us about being adopted.........ooops that was a secret!!!!!

Tinkerbelle · 31-10-2005, 23:42

I'M ADOPTED!!!!!!

Thankgod for that!!!!

slinky · 31-10-2005, 23:44

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle

I'M ADOPTED!!!!!!

Thankgod for that!!!!

We both was sweetheart, we have very rich parents, i forgot to tell...........opps it was supposed to be a secret.

Tinkerbelle · 31-10-2005, 23:47

Our real parents must have been extremely atrractive to have sired us aswell as rich

slinky · 31-10-2005, 23:48

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Originally Posted by Tinkerbelle

Our real parents must have been extremely atrractive to have sired us aswell as rich

I know I know

but that sounded too big headed for us to be gloating on here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tinkerbelle · 31-10-2005, 23:49

GLOATING ........... gloating? Nope just stating a fact