Advice Please ??? - Page 2

panther · 11-02-2008, 18:12

looks like to me she only wants ya for ya car , so tell her to **** off, if she dont like it then take em to another school!

howarth · 11-02-2008, 20:19

wow !! lol thanx a lot guys xx ive even spoke to her today and is saying stuff like we will have to get a spair booster seat ? i said wot for ? for september when kids go to school !
i said i hope to have moved by then lol i then said that i dnt expect **** ( her hubby ) to drive all the way to pick up my sons( were ever i move ) then drive them to school, then expect me to do the same at home time ???? i realy think she has lost the plot !!!

Lilly · 11-02-2008, 21:02

I agree with everyone else who has posted here. Tell her that you won't be responsible for taking her children to school, if she can't get them there then she needs to send them to one that she can get to.

What Flashy said about your mate is scary, it sounds like she'll be wanting to drink your bath water next!

Move house and 'lose' her phone number.

shillelagh · 12-02-2008, 00:18

Its her problem to get her child to school. If you went on holiday 1 week before the holidays would her child her not go to school for that week? You cant be held responsible for her child getting to school she is. She is also responsible for picking her child up. Also it sounds like your children are older than her child - your children are already at that school - so what happens if you dont move and you stay were you are does she expect you to take and pick up her child even after theyve left that school? I would tell her to find her own way to and from school that she cant depend on you being there.

Ber999T · 12-02-2008, 04:41

if what flashy says is right "bunny boiler alert" start sounding here. move don't say when or where and leave falsh phone number (382*** local police station)

jaysay · 12-02-2008, 10:09

People are here to live their own lives, and if on the way you can give some one a leg up all well and good, but when that some one expects you to do things just to sort out their problems, its time to tell them to sod of.

Dawn-of-the-Shed · 12-02-2008, 12:46

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Originally Posted by WillowTheWhisp

If that's all true then if I were you I'd be even more determined to move. You have to live your own life and not someone else's.

Yep it is all true she's a bit ahem.....strange......always living what other people do......Emm do what you want to do ..don't even for a second think about her!...You've go what she wants and unfortunatley....she aint gonna get it

xxx

flashy · 12-02-2008, 14:40

had an accywebber at my house yesterday when this woman dawn and em are on about came round and he said 'she's too happy for my liking, whats she on?' lol

howarth · 12-02-2008, 14:48

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Originally Posted by shillelagh

Its her problem to get her child to school. If you went on holiday 1 week before the holidays would her child her not go to school for that week? You cant be held responsible for her child getting to school she is. She is also responsible for picking her child up. Also it sounds like your children are older than her child - your children are already at that school - so what happens if you dont move and you stay were you are does she expect you to take and pick up her child even after theyve left that school? I would tell her to find her own way to and from school that she cant depend on you being there.

my eldest is in his last yr then my middle one is a yr 1 and my youngest one starts in sep the same has her son, and her eldest is alredy at high school. My hubby said to me it was a bit much of a commitmant b4 we decided to move, like above said, if mine were off with illness or we were on holiday how would she cope then ?? and i said this too here last year she just said "we'll coss that when it happens ?? you see she hasnt drove a car for over 10yrs !! so she will just have to book a refresher course, and get behind the wheel, even though she says to me she hates drinving. when i told all this last week to another freind of mine ( who has never even met her !!) she said the same as everyone on here she just cnt expect me to commit to this and any one normal would surley understand ?? I could do with speaking to her hubby on his own without her being there to se what his veiws are ???
sorry for going on and on, but it has realy got to me

flashy · 12-02-2008, 14:49

DO YOU WANT A SLAP MRS w? just ignore her, she's a div

Dawn-of-the-Shed · 12-02-2008, 14:55

Oi Mrs Howarth 2 slaps on way ( Flashy and me ) u are an independent great person.......she is not that is the prob! LEAVE HER!

Kiwi John · 12-02-2008, 17:39

Can't help but think that this 'kids' thing is but her lame excuse for wanting to be 'close' to you- kinda possesive.The schooling issue may well be nothing but a smokescreen for her more emotional feelings. Get her out of your life.

Madhatter · 13-02-2008, 12:09

If you didn't want to move your klds and upset their schooling, didn't want then to lose class mates friends, then it could be quite convenient. By what you've said though, thats not an issue, so I'd just start them in a new school. Tell her you've become an environmentalist and couldn't possibly allow them to be driven to school over that distance. Then use the same excuse so you don't have to go n see her.

flashy · 13-02-2008, 12:24

from what i know they are staying at the same school, it would be just too much for em to have to pick the other child up too

Madhatter · 13-02-2008, 14:46

you're having a laugh right? tell her to get lost.