whats the best....(women only please)

flashy · 05-04-2009, 17:41

time of the month to concieve?

i've never been sure...is it two weeks prior to your period?

or is it two weeks after your period?

i know we ovulate two weeks before but i always get the weeks confused

Less · 05-04-2009, 17:44

Quote:

Originally Posted by flashy

time of the month to concieve?

i've never been sure...is it two weeks prior to your period?

or is it two weeks after your period?

i know we ovulate two weeks before but i always get the weeks confused

Shouldn't be confusing for you, just count 14 days after your last warning or ban and bang that's the time!

Or you could

for it.

flashy · 05-04-2009, 17:45

Quote:

Originally Posted by Less

Shouldn't be confusing for you, just count 14 days after your last warning or ban and bang that's the time!

Or you could

for it.

pmsfl

accyman · 05-04-2009, 19:10

is less confused as to his gender

damn it now iv replied too

flashy · 05-04-2009, 19:12

you've always been confused about yours love, and i have the pics to prove it

vera · 05-04-2009, 20:10

Down to a serious answer. It is said 2 weeks before your next period, but as every woman is different, it is hard to give an exact reply, if you go into a chemist and get one of those little booklets they have on ailments, or whatever they call them, that may give you a more specific answer.

flashy · 05-04-2009, 20:12

thanx for that Vera, its very confusing with me anyway, i have pcos so i may not even be able to concieve, i have only got a 1% chance of having anymore, i dont always have regular periods either

MargaretR · 05-04-2009, 20:12

google it
Ovulation: All you need to know about ovulation | Getting pregnant: tips and advice | Family | goodtoknow
When you ovulate depends on the due date of your next period and not the previous one. Eg: If your cycle regularly lasts 31 days, you should ovulate on day 17. So if you have sex on your prime fertile days, between days 14 and 17, you have a good chance of falling pregnant.

flashy · 05-04-2009, 20:14

i was due mine today but havent yet, getting all the pains that go with it though...so i have to wait another 2 weeks then?

Margaret Pilkington · 05-04-2009, 20:20

It is very difficult to predict ovulation in someone with your condition Flashy, which is why I have hesitated before replying to your question.
Theoretically in someone with a regular 28 day cycle ovulation would occur around day 14......this doesn't help you very much.
I can tell you that your period will appear 14 days after you have ovulated.......but again that isn't much help.
You need to go and see your GP for proper advice and maybe a referral to a gynaecologist.

katex · 05-04-2009, 20:24

Just go at it everyday Flashy, than you can't go wrong.

Personally, only had two, but could pin it down both times to 11 days after the end of my period.

How can you say 'before' when you don't know when will be your next ? .. like when people gave me directions (usually men) ... "and before you get to the garage ... turn right, if you have gone passed it you have missed the turning" ....

Margaret Pilkington · 05-04-2009, 20:27

[quote=katex;700908]Just go at it everyday Flashy, than you can't go wrong.

How can you say 'before' when you don't know when will be your next ? ..

That's the problem for flashy Katex........she is going to need proper professional help(either that or a team of men

)

flashy · 05-04-2009, 20:29

thanx Margarets (both of you)

so Kate, IF i have a period this month then i MAY get caught 11 days after....right, ok lol

flashy · 05-04-2009, 20:30

[quote=Margaret Pilkington;700909]

Quote:

Originally Posted by katex

That's the problem for flashy Katex........she is going to need proper professional help(either that or a team of men

)

I have needed professional help for a long time Margaret lol

I dont want a whole team of men....just the one i have will do ta very much lol

Margaret Pilkington · 05-04-2009, 20:34

No Flashy, you won't if you have a long cycle....say for instance 44 days, then you will ovulate around day 30.......and your period will arrive day 44 if you don't conceive.
That is the tough part of PCOS.......you really can't tell when you are going to ovulate unless you keep an ovulation calendar.
This means taking your temperature every morning before you get out of bed....the day you ovulate your temperature will go up by half a degree....and then you have to hope that the man in your life is in the mood.
Even this method is a bit hit and miss because you can have a temperature if you have a bit of an infection.......this is why I suggest professional help.