Why do women always assume that men, or should I say all men, are only wanting one thing from a woman. Can they not just seek a friendly relationship with no strings attached . And why can't we men assume the same that women only want our bodies without them thinking we are calling them TARTS. I watched a very young and very attractive young lady who was pushing a pram along the road today fall hook line and sinker for the whistles and remarks of 2 lads on some scaffolding. She stopped for a chat (for AN HOUR) was obviuously flirting with them and next thing she was going and getting them some dinner.... Who was after what, is it assumed to be the man as usual, because it seemed to me that the opposite was prevalant in this case. Are times a changing or what.
Rumpy Pumpy
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i have more male mates than female mates. Always have done even in junior school. Have always got on better with blokes than females. As far as Im concerned some blokes particularly between the ages of 16-20 all they think of is women are for one thing and one thing only - its drummed into them from tv and magazines. Not by their mums but outside influences. Even in school in human biology its drummed into them about contraceptives not treating a girl/woman with respect. Once though theyve got out of the teenage years and into their twenties they grow up a bit not much but they seem to settle down and realise that they wont get anywhere without respect. But it does work both ways if a woman treats a bloke with respect she should get respect back. I know me personally wouldve given them some stick back if theyd have done that to me mind you no one whistles at me - unless theyre blind!
Times are a changing though kids are more streetwise nowadays than what i was when i was a kid and that isnt that long ago! Like we wouldnt have had the guts to nick their dads credit card and pay for porn on sky like what happened to one of my mates. His son is 14! Would you have done that?
Its all mainly to do with tv and magazines and books and radio. You look at all the tv programmes how they portray women and men.
Times are a changing though kids are more streetwise nowadays than what i was when i was a kid and that isnt that long ago! Like we wouldnt have had the guts to nick their dads credit card and pay for porn on sky like what happened to one of my mates. His son is 14! Would you have done that?
Its all mainly to do with tv and magazines and books and radio. You look at all the tv programmes how they portray women and men.
seriously though i wouldn,t give much credance to people that make assumptions, opinion based on fact is far more important in my book.
Neil said:
It works both ways now guys hit on girls and girls hit on guys its the way things are. As shillelagh says kids are more street wise and women have more confidence in themselves which is a good thing as they now give as good as they get. The women chatted to the guys for an hour and flirting with them and guys do the same talk and flirt so its evens stevens.
thought all that was to do with the ale in preston! they couldnt drink it so they sodded off back home!
I definitely think that girls are a bit more forward now, but I also think that it is possible to have a friendship with a member of the opposite sex without wanting anything else. Maybe I'm just lucky, I do have male friends who I wouldn't even consider going any further than friendship with....